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what are your guts telling you???

awww you’re sweet lol

And i’d say you need to drop the whole “she could do better” bit first. Its her decision, not yours:P. if she liked you she liked you. No low self esteem. don’t put yourself down, k?
From what you said i’d bet a million she noticed you.
Just go back and try and find her.
Better to go find out and try, get that date, then spend the rest of your life regretting, no?

x

Belle Latina wrote:
what are your guts telling you???

My guts tell me I screwed up. But that’s what they always tell me.

its not too late yet

Cannonball Girl wrote:
awww you’re sweet lolAnd i’d say you need to drop the whole “she could do better” bit first. Its her decision, not yours:P. if she liked you she liked you. No low self esteem. don’t put yourself down, k? From what you said i’d bet a million she noticed you.Just go back and try and find her.Better to go find out and try, get that date, then spend the rest of your life regretting, no?x

Thanks for the advice, but I don’t have a reason to go back to there. Plus I would have to be there on the right day at the right time, and the place is big too. Then it would just make me look desperate, wouldn’t it.

It’s good to know you think she noticed me. But weren’t my hands pretty much tied in that situation. What could I have possibly done?

Anonymous wrote:

Cannonball Girl wrote:
awww you’re sweet lolAnd i’d say you need to drop the whole “she could do better” bit first. Its her decision, not yours:P. if she liked you she liked you. No low self esteem. don’t put yourself down, k? From what you said i’d bet a million she noticed you.Just go back and try and find her.Better to go find out and try, get that date, then spend the rest of your life regretting, no?x

Thanks for the advice, but I don’t have a reason to go back to there. Plus I would have to be there on the right day at the right time, and the place is big too. Then it would just make me look desperate, wouldn’t it.

It’s good to know you think she noticed me. But weren’t my hands pretty much tied in that situation. What could I have possibly done?

yes that was a pretty awkward situation. lol.
well, if its meant to be it will.
and if theres no chance? really you shouldn’t dwell on it too much..just take confidence in the fact that she noticed you.

but I don’t have a reason to go back to there.

Yes, you do. To ask her out.

Opportunity is still there. Her smile could mean many things but you’ll never know if you’ll just do nothing. Go talk to her. Make your move.

Ok, maybe this is just my paranoid mind, but if someone came looking for me at school or work, and they told me that they came just to find me because I smiled at them the other day, even if I was initially attracted to them now I’d be thinking, “bunny boiler”.

well if you put it THAT way.. yea, I’d pretty much think you’re a psycho. I’d say approach her in a light, funny, & romantic way, but be confident otherwise you’ll come off as an uber creepy geek w. no skills in the women department (which is sad in itself). Make an *** of yourself- at least she’ll laugh & if she says no you can leave with some dignity as opposed to leaving w. an “oh great, I’m Mr. psycho stalker now” feeling. Tell her you casually saw her the last time you were in, and then went about your day. Small problem- you haven’t been able to get her smile out of your head ever since and although you’re probably making a complete fool of yourself you just felt the need to clarify this or risk comparing the smile on the face of every girl you ever encounter to hers. Tell her that you may sound crazy, but you couldn’t help but wonder if you totally blew a golden opportunity with a really good looking girl… if you didn’t try you’d regret it for the rest of your life… then ask her if she’d be willing to have coffee or something minor w. you in a PUBLIC place or w.e. if she has a boyfriend or rather not just tell her to let you know so that you may turn around and leave w. some dignity. It’s not so bad, guy. It’s unlikely that you’ll ever see her again if you don’t. It’s a good story… something to laugh at if it doesn’t work out…. something to cherish if it does. lol… i know im cheesy but who cares.. as long as we’re smiling you’re doing something right. Be a man about it though, don’t be a pansy. Stand up straight, use yr sexy man voice, and show her yr not a total goofball. good luck

you should definitely try talking to her. you never know :)

only female advice? WTF? LOL.

There are a lot more hot women about than decent guy’s who aren’t afraid, worshiping or harassing them.

What you got to lose? You ask, and if she says no - you are right where you are now but with no regrets.