girl help: please let me know what u think!

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please let me know what u think!

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!So I have a question about this girl at work. I am a lesbian and completely out.She is supposedly bi and everyone knows about that as well.She currently has a boyfriend and supposedly she dates girls on the side. I’ve heard that she had said that she would deffinitley get with me, she also reffers to me as her girl to others(jokingly), I also catch her looking at me. However when try to start a conversation I find that she is always walking away from me. I had to intiate a convresation everytime. Then finally I mustered up courage and asked her when we are going to go out? and I asked her if she would like to and she said yes. So I gave her my number and she never called me or brought it up again. Then after about a month I asked her out to dinner and she totally blew me off. Yet when I don’t work she is asking others where I am and I still catch her looking at me. When I ignore her she talks to me and is very flirtatous and touchy. What do u think is going on? I am so confused. I just can’t understand this girl!

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tumble weed 5 #
Waterloo, ON, CA | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Perhaps she is trying to be serious with her boyfriend but can’t help thinking about you?

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Sans 57 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

I think whether she’s bi or not, she’s already in a relationship. And she’s a tease.

dotspot 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

Sounds like she doesn’t know what she wants. Thats really frustrating! But yeah, she is in a relationship, PLUS, she is a coworker (which could backfire and make your job more difficult). She also might just be playing a stupid game; maybe you need to back off a little and she will come to you. Either way, I suggest that you try to forget about her and look for love elsewhere.

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