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There is a girl that I really like a lot, she is my ex.

it ended not too well, but we fixed things up,

and just b/c she did not like something small i did after our break up,

she stopped all contact.

and recently, she started to initiate contact w/ me.

Now, I don’t know what to do or how to address it.

recently, she’s been talking to me again, and i’ve been so happy she has.

and she even suggested during spring break we could meet up in one city.

But then she changed plans and is going to another city to visit family, but i was bored and looking at random posted pics and found a comment made by her saying she would meet up w/ these guys and she’d already bought tix etc.

It sounds like she’s lying to me, but i dont know what to do.

should I address it? or what?

I dont want to ruin the contact we have renewed again.

Thanks

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mehdiboussab offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (29 minutes after post)

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (37 minutes after post)

Do you really want to pursue a relationship with someone you don’t feel you can trust?

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Froggish9 offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Central District, 00, HK | 4 years, 5 months ago (1 hour after post)

Yes, she is a really great person. Even if I do have a small prob like that, its my own fault. I know she is a person that can be trusted, its just my own doubt and insecurity thats blinding me. I really do like her a lot, love her even, and i know thats a strong word, but in this case, it is more than appropriate.

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (4 hours, 46 minutes after post)

And what if she doesn’t feel the same for you? You’ll only be hurting yourself.

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