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My boyfriend is meeting my friends tonight

They’re all guys, three of them. They all live in the same apartment. My friends are great and I know they’ll love my boyfriend, so why am I nervous?

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jcd offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

Maybe you’re afraid that your boyfriend will be jealous that you have three male friends.

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Miss Panther offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

maybe you are just a little nervous about how your boyfiend will be. everything will be fine, don’t worry :)

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zoo_baw offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

well, don’t be. it’s gonna be fine.

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Whatsername17 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Miss Panther wrote:
maybe you are just a little nervous about how your boyfiend will be. everything will be fine, don’t worry :)

Ah no, my boyfriend and I have been friends for years, so he knows I hang around with mostly guys. Maybe I feel bad bringing him somewhere where I know everyone and he only knows me.

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Whatsername17 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Lol, sorry I meant to quote jcd. But I agree with you Miss Panther.

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Miss Panther offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

well i wish you luck! Enjoy yourself :)

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Victoria Sponge offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

It may be awkward at first but the more time your boyfriend spends with your friends the better they will all get on, i have been with my boyfriend a year now and we are only just getting to the point where he is comfortable with my friends and I am just about talking to his, it may or may not take time but it will work out for the best, your friends like you and your boyfriends like you so you all have something in common, go luck

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Whatsername17 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (23 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Well it’s done. My friends love my boyfriend, well not in THAT way, lol. And my boyfriend definitely enjoyed himself. :-D

The next hurdle is him meeting my female friends, who are so easily offended and promised that they won’t tell me if they don’t like him :-s

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Victoria Sponge offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (23 hours, 28 minutes after post)

At lest you are over the 1st hurdle, glad last night went well

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