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My fiance and I just bought a house and after only

a month we let one of my fiances friends moved in because he would be relocating and trying to get back on his feet. 2 months after living with us he gains full custody of his daughter and moves her into one of our 4 bedrooms. No big deal I think, he would be on his feet any day and my son would be able to play with his daughter and it would be great. Well 2 and a half months later, they still live with us!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

I’ve been there. I recently got out of a relationship with the guy too. It was crap my ex wanted his brother to live with us, only we had him fit into our one bedroom totally taking away the living room space. It got really annoying and I’m perticular about my space. I didn’t say much because he was still paying the rent but eventually I did have to tell my ex that his brother had to go.

If your paying a part of that house you have every right to say to him. ” I understand that he needed the help to get up on his feet, but now is the time for him to get out. ” If you don’t talk to him. You’ll just end up getting really agrivated fight more with your spouse and leave yourself.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

If you don’t get them out that could put a serious strain on your marriage. Do what you can to get the mout asap. Also, take a mini vacation for some ‘me’ time. It might do you some good to escape the stress for a little while.

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