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I have a question about relationships, tell me what do you think.

So I met this guy over the summer, in a retreat at a beautiful place upstate NY. He is really cute but I wasnt planning to flirt with him. i had recently gotten out of a relationship and my heart was broken. But until I noticed he was always staring at me, and smiling with that cute face ( sorry for being corny lol) the point is we had small talk here and there but I was always curious why he was always staring at me even when we were in a group of people. Even other people noticed how he looked at me…When we were in the bus on our way back to our town. I was battling whether or not i should give him my #, I didnt want to lose contact with him, and I didnt want to be too obvious so I just gave him my aim screen name. He added me about a week after that, and we spoke a couple of times, but he never asked for my number. maybe I really misinterpreted the way he was looking at me. He barely goes on aim, and he recently move from NY to Maryland, and whenever I see him we only say hi to each other because there is too many people around. He looks kind of shy in person, but what do u think? Do you think he didnt like me on the first place, he had a bad impression of me when i gave him my aim, or maybe he is just to busy to be on aim all the time? but why he never asked for my number? Im kind of disappointed because I started to really like this guy,,,,,I know is silly but I need some opinions! Thanks

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If he is shy take it easy. Sometimes doing something simple like getting a number can be really difficult for that person. Also just because he hasn’t asked you for your number yet doesn’t mean he’s not interested. He may just be working up to it be patient. Especially if you believe he’s shy. If he’s as shy as I am he won’t take the initial step unless he’s absolutly sure your into him. Just in a subtle way make sure you keep letting him know that your interested and show him that you like talking to him. Be assertive but not pushy if after a few times you experess your interst and he still doesn’t ask. Just let it go there’s no point in chasing someone who doesn’t meet you half way to say the least.

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