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HELPPPP i think im going to cut my wrists agian here the story.

have a boyufriend who doesnt want me to talk to my guy best friend anemd mike. which if you look at my profile it says that i think mike can help me. and im NOT going to lose mike over my boyfriend.cuz i have called mike crying before and he has never laughed at me. not once. so im going to cut my wrists. HELP

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bookworm16 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

This is no reason to cut your wrists!

Have you tried talking to your boyfriend, explaining the relationship with Mike to him?

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andi4904 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 11 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

he doesnt understand. He thinks he is goig to lose me to mike because his best friend lost his girlfriend to mike but he just doesnt get it

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bookworm16 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

Does he know that you used to cut your wrists?

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Luck of the Irish offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 116 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

Talk to him, he sounds a tad controlling, if this is the case dump him straight away, as he does not deserve a person like you.

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andi4904 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 11 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

mike does but my boyfriend doesnt and the only reason mike does is becuase he used to cut his wrists too

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bookworm16 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

Well, maybe you need to tell your boyfriend for him to fully understand. You shouldn’t have to choose between them when you could do something meaning you can talk to both.

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andi4904 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 11 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

LUCK OF THE IRISH - i do talk to him.. not necessarily bout mike tho. but i dont think my friends will understand if i dump him becuase i am the one that onl keeps a boyfriend for three days tops and they dont wan tme to ruin it for myself

BOOKWORM - i cnat tell my boyfriend its kind of a soft subject. i dotn want people to kno that i do.

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andi4904 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 11 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

i have to go every one ill check this tomorrow.

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bookworm16 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

If you don’t feel that you can tell him, then maybe you shouldn’t be together. A relationship can’t last if you’re always hiding something from him.

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