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So there’s this girl that I was planning on asking out tomorrow.

She is nice, attractive, and always genuinely happy when I’m around her. Today, however, she was really distant and didn’t even say hi to me today. Did I do something to offend her? I am hesitant now to ask her out. How can I get her to be like how she was before?

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Luck of the Irish offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

I am afraid you are going to have to take the plunge and ask her, maybe she was depressed today, maybe not, I don’t know, speak to her, if she was depressed she would be very grateful that you noticed!

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11 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

She didn’t seem depressed; it was more like she was ignoring me…

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

It’s hard to say because we’re not there. Maybe if you elaborate a little.
What gave you the confidence to ask her out. Did she show an interest? How did you meet. How often have you talked. There’s a lot of factors to include.

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11 months, 4 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

I’m in high school, to start things off. I’ve known of her for the past 3 years, but I just started talking with her and getting to know her in my art class for the past few months. I would say she’s shown an interest in me, but that may just her being nice. She is pretty popular, but that doesn’t matter to me, because I have just as much of a chance as any other person. I would say that I have just built up the confidence over a long period of time getting to know her, and I’d love to do something with her outside of school.

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