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i had the same problem last month! i have the best life anyone could ever think of, but when i came home i would lock myself up in my room all night. I thought and I thought why the hell was i so depressed? i finally saw that i hole in my life. i had just lost my best friend and i thought i could get thro life without her, but the real problem is i cant live without her. i screwed up our friendship and there is no way i will ever get it back. now i am cutting and drinking in which you should not do!

right now i am trying to get over my addictions, but my advice to you is to figure out where there is a whole in ur life. did you lose someone? did a tradgedy happen? is there something in the past that keeps haunting you? whatever it is seek help, or atleast try to fix things up. dont screw up like i did.

i am getting into some fights with my best friend as well..she has another best friend and i feel like she means so much to me when i dont mean as much to her..is this the reason?

it may as well could be. that’s pretty much how my bf and broike up. we just started high school this year and she started to ignore me and hang out with other ppl. especially this one person paticular. i think i over reacted a little too much to that and i guess annoyed to where she stopped wanting to be my friend. i tried and tried to ask why she was ignoring and if she didn’t like me.

Don’t do that, but do confront her, ask her why are we fighting? do you want to be my best friend anymore? can’t you have more than one best friend and share? dont ask too many questions at once though, take one step at a time. have patience. i lost my patience with my friend and that’s how lost her. dont do the same mistakes as me.

also try talking to a school counselor. that helped me a lot.

Maybe you need someone special in ur life. mostly everyone feels the same you do. Its not weird. Try to devote ur life to a special person,

Maybe you need to find more of a purpose, that’s apart of growing up, you do many things to help you become more of a person and how you want to live your life.

it’s hard when you have a friends who doesn’t seem to care as much for you as you do for them. I feel that way about a lot of friends that i have but it is nothing to be depressed about. Maybe it is time to look for a new best friend or maybe you should ask your friend what is going on and tell her how you feel.

What do you do after school each day. No sports, music classes, dance, ? You seem to have too much free time for a while in the evinings. This is a bad time for young people to be “not busy”. What you are feeling is not really unusual at this point in your life and if you talk to others who are “not busy” you may find they feel the same way. You have said you have loving parents soooo, you should talk to them about your feelings and see if they can help you get some direction about how to best use that time. Good Luck & Best Wishes!!

ya. i agree with gepetto. I do basketball after school. with out that, i would probably be doing worse stuff than just cutting myself. either find an after school hobby, or fine someone to hang out wit that is also “not busy”

i take guitar lessons and ususally get home at around seven to do homework. until seven i hang out with friends..wander around the streets with a alot of people…etc etc

everything is much better now though. i tihnk it was all in my head. my friend really does love me and i have an amazng life. it ws just a few days where i was feeling down..

hah we were just nominated best friends in the yearbook..ironicc much?

anyways thatks so much for all your help. its amazing to have people that care when i feel like no one really does.