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Why do the good people get sick?

My grandmother has heart problems. She didnt used to have heart problems, but now she does just started a few months ago..My grandpa has diabetes..has had like 3 heart attacks, heart surgeries, among other things(i dont know their names)..
Their sick, but yet rapist,murderers, and people who are just not good people have great health..health to help keep them doing all the horrible things they have been..

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Commander Ikari online Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Perhaps because disease targets those more susceptible due to their genetic predisposition, health?

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Joy. offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (16 minutes after post)

thats not fair.

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Commander Ikari online Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Neither is life. But things happen.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Life isn’t fair. And, I know this is depressing, but everyone dies eventually. That’s life. It’s the frame we live in — we’re born, we live, and we die.

No one deserves to be sick. Illness isn’t about deserving or not. It’s just about what happens. And no one gets to be healthy forever.

Just treasure every moment you get to be with someone you love, and let them know you treasure it. And remember, being good or bad is not about some reward. It’s the reward itself. Good people get to be good. You are probably too young to have ever done anything really bad, but trust me, doing something really bad becomes its own punishment with time. Being good is its own reward. And, you love your grandparents, that’s a great treasure to them. Trust me on that — they are thankful.

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chris_woot! offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (25 minutes after post)

well yea life isn’t fair and they are getting old (very old).

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Kuvri (yodaluv12) offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 12 months ago (36 minutes after post)

I know it isn’t fair for that to happen, but I look at it like this: rapists and murderers usually (hopefully) get locked up, spend years of their lives in jail, and are often killed once they get out (sometimes even while they’re still behind bars). Some of these people grew up in abusive homes and weren’t loved. In fact, people hate them and wish them dead. On the other hand, your grandparents have had long lives and watched their children and grandchildren grow up to be wonderful people, thanks to them. They don’t have the weight of the pain they’ve caused on others to carry. They get treated with love and kindness and will carry that with them after death (if that’s what you believe).

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Yoshi offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (23 hours, 43 minutes after post)

The good people are not necessarily strong to diseases. They can be ethically strong in discipline to others, not for themselves. Are they an altruist? Perhaps.
Getting older is such things. I hope you can have time to remember them well.

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sweetjane030 offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

“but yet rapist,murderers, and people who are just not good people have great health”

That’s not true, all those people (rapists, murderers, etc.) get sick also, probably just as much as good people do, but it seems we don’t hear about it much. Perhaps because people don’t care enough about the “bad” people to care to mention the aliments they suffer from. But I’m sure alot of them suffer sickness just like good people.

I like how one poster said that things just happen, not because someone deserves it or not (usually due to genetics, but also due to things such as our environment, diet, lack of exercise, lack of preventative measures + health education, etc., etc.)

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