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what do you do if you want a guy to like you if you think he dislikes you?

ok, sounds confusing but basically: there’s a guy that i like who i think used to be interested in me too. i felt like we began to really connect. but something changed and now i feel like i annoy him. now he intimidates me and it’s really hard for me to talk to him. i have no clue if he actually dislikes me or not, i’m just the sort of person who concludes things like that. we never really connected by talking, but more by catching each other staring, and flirting with our actions. we’re both sort of shy. what do i do to change his mind of me as a person? because before i can even begin to consider a relationship again with him, i want him to like me just as a person. advice?

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acousticlove0 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
San Ramon, CA, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

try to get to know him as a friend…be friends first? that always seems to work for me. and then once you get to know him better you can decide if you still have other feelings for him

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¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (36 minutes after post)

Just get to know him, actually sit down and have a conversation.
It’s hard for me too, because I myself am quite shy ..but for me, I’m trying to overcome that.

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trudytrueheart offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Kansas City, MO, US | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 5 minutes after post)

Form these words with your mouth…”Would you like to get to know me?” If he says “no” then move on.

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