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I can’t decide on whether or not I’m being childish or not.

I’ve been dating my girlfriend for 9 months now, and we fight off and on. A throughout the course of our relationship, she has broken three fairly serious promises to me. 2 of the times I found out that she broke them, and asked her about it, and she lied to my face saying that she didn’t. So I don’t feel like I can trust her anymore, but I don’t know if this feeling is right. Am I right not to trust her fully?

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (6 minutes after post)

You are definitely not being childish. Trust is a HUGE part of relationships, and if broken promises is a serious offense to you (to some it’s not) then she has been disloyal to you.
Past behaviour also predicts future behaviour.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (12 minutes after post)

just tell her if i cant trust you i will never ever for my whole life believe what you say…

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