girl help: how can i deal with my jelousy. - Help.com

i try not to show but he knows me. he can tell when im feeling jelous like in a room full of other girls. when he looks at other girls i feel so ugly and unattractive.

Do you look at other guys? It’s natural. You need to learn to let go or you’re going to lose him. No one can stadn jealousy for long. It’s only going to distract you from the good things in the relationship.

suspicion will ruin all trust,especially when you prove your suspicions,,you will have to trust to live a happy life,,but your suspsion will destroy your trust.
so thats the question,,good luck w/ the answer

I know its hard but this type of behavior will not help your relationship at all. Unfortunatly we as humans are all hardwired to look at others and not always because we are interested in them but because we are judging them. So think of it that way the next time he looks at another woman. He may be thinking, “That skank…” for all you know. As for searching his belongings, think about the repercussions if you are caught, do you think he would do the same to you? It is not only invasion of privacy but can cause a major strain on both of you if you are caught. It may be very hard, and trust me i’ve been there, but you have to just stop worrying, you cannot control what he does so why bother worrying about it? Just trust him and if its meant to be everything will be alright.If not, then all the better for you to find the one that is…