Person help: Why do people put down other people? - Help.com

I’m not sure… I bring the same helpful intent to every post, yet I noticed my last 15 replies were all inanely stupid, but the 15 before that were caringly helpful. I was just about to make a post asking for advice on how to always make good replies when you posted this.

They either do it to make themselves feel better,

Or they do it because they see someone else doing it to not feel left out.

But it is a shame that people would do stuff like this to each other, instead of getting along and becomming friends.

But about the posting stuff, unfortunately there are people out there that cause trouble just because they can. They sometimes do it mainly for a good laugh, but at someone else’s misfortune. I understand what you mean, nearly everyday I see stuff like this, I use to see it at school and I see it here. It is a shame when human beings don’t act like humans, then everyone acts all surprised when they see so much wrong with the world.

Sorry, im probably just ranting now

I guess it’s because some people have tried and failed before, and because of that there are people that see world peace as impossible and they think that it will never happen. The truth is that it can, but the first step into achieving this is for people to change the way they think, you know, spend more time lending a hand instead of putting others down.

And also, don’t mean to get off subject but something else that people do is to always say what needs to change and they always say what they should do, but never do it, or even try. They usually say they don’t feel like it or not right now. I don’t think they should talk of the problem if they aren’t willing to try and fix it.

Maybe they do it because they are miserable and frustrated with their own life?
Maybe they need more sleep or some chocolate?

That’s a good question, I guess it’s just plain old human nature is all, but yes, people should tell more about there problems and people should be more concerened on helping instead of criticizing.

Sometimes when a problem is presented to someone, the solver can see the person with the problem as the one who caused it, not completely looking at it from all sides and not wanting to hear the whole situation.

The more powerful the “helper” is and the harder they try, the more damage they do to the “helpee”. It’s a scary situation, but that’s only the negative view which spirals off into endless criticizing the criticizers and modding the trolls etc… something might actually help, there might be something good and positive, and perhaps it can be found.

I’m not sure why people bash on other people with problems.
I hope that there are more people that help than those who bash.
I agree with Mary Chan, we all need to be more patient.
It feels good to help others; it makes it easier to breath.

Humans are sometimes selfish, see what concerns them as more important, they see anything else that dosen’t concern them as unimportant. But I guess there are ups and downs to everything. Sometimes when the person ignores someone else’s trouble, they could be doing something that may have a later benefit for someone else though. And when they do help someone, every once in awhile it could be causeing harm for someone else.

sure, good night

Good night, thanks for your post.

Rudeness is wasteful. It devalues and minimalizes our issue. Such people should realize it is better to say nothing that give a short remark like ‘just deal’ or ’suck it up’ etc

I believe these indiviuals have no idea how to deal with their own problems and have been told ‘just suck it up’ and really hate what they are going through.