Love help: ok so, i feel like im on a stand still, its been 4 months now and im still sruggling, am i gnna be lonely until imeet someone new to love? - Help.com

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just gonna have to stick it out. been almost a year and a half for me now and it still sucks =/

your cute though, you shouldnt have to much of a problem meeting someone new.

yes you are ;)

and I feel like crap a lot, not always about that anymore as im FINALLY almost completely over it, but I still find myself thinking about it, probably because I havent met anyone else yet while she moved on instantly =/

my remedies for comfort are not recommended…booze and bud, lol.

everything will be fine in the end though. and I recommend you not try to be friends with them, because we all know we’re just kidding ourselfs thinking that will work without feelings being around still. just sucks cuz u feel like u lost a best friend

If he’s not with you right now, Chillout, I think he missed out. Don’t worry about some guy who could not appreciate you. I’m telling you . . . there are drop-dead gorgeous women out there, witty, sensitive, fun-to-be-with women . . . and they are beating up themselves because they are wondering why some jerk of a guy cannot appreciate them.

You’ve got to get such guys out of your mind. What I will tell you is this: there are tens of millions of guys who WOULD appreciate you, but for TWO things!

OK . . . here’s the two things:

1. The guys have to know you exist.

2. Once they know you exist, you must not talk about your ex. That makes a guy think you’re still emotionally involved with your ex, and he’ll figure any efforts are wasted on you.

So, get out in circulation . . . and SHADDUP about some unappreciative ex!

hats off again to chev..

don’t try and get into another relationship then :-)

You’d have to fake it, and then when it ended, you’d be back were you are now thinking “why didn’t I take the time to heal, and enjoy being single, so I could be ready for a quality relationship”

Enjoy the place your at. Plenty of people have been there too, and most people respect honesty.

What you want short term?

chillout get your passport get a visa get a backpack get your A$$$ over to Australia for at least 6 month .Live with other backpackers talk ot other people see australia and clear you mind .After that who knows ,what is your future..

Ah, Barbyman, a “walkabout”! That’s something we should ALL do!

Just got back from one, best idea ever.

my Son just did it haven’t seen him almost for 2 Years .12 month in India the rest in Europe .Came back a different Person .Smart, can talk about anything.A lot more confident .There is no University for this kind of education…

good on you!!!

4 months is nothing. Really, be patient, you can’t force love.