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I love my husband but sometimes I feel that he is only with me because I can give him things and I’m hoping that; that is not the case.

he seems to only be happy when he either has money or he is given sex. he say that I’m selfish but I’m the only one in the mirrage it feels like I am the only one giving alot. and I really hate that
However-on the other hand we both have this friend in common, and he like me just like I like him the problem is that he also notice how my husband treats and he does not like it …….why I couldn’t have meet him before my husband then I would have been alright. DID I MAKE A HUGE MISTAKE?

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cyn_298 offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 hours, 12 minutes after post)

well you have to think in yourself if you are not happy in that marriage then get out! you should be with the man that treats right and gives just as much effort as you do in the marriage and if he is not gonna do that then leave dont wait around. you have to get out of one relationship before you start another cas then it will be one big mess.

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wllmsn offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

Thank you and you are right!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

you welcome :]

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