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I have a friend who wants to move to Australia with the man she loves.

He is enrolled in school down there and has bought his ticket already. They both don’t have the means to save nearly enough no matter how hard she works or looks for other jobs on the side. The outcome is they will be separated from each other. They want to get married someday. How could you live thousands of miles from the one you yearn in desperation to spend every second of your life with? Please, help them!

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- Fourthings™ - offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Ballinteer, 07, IE | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 54 minutes after post)

Unfortunately you can’t make these decisions for them. I learned that the hard way. My sister married a guy from Texas and moved there and while she’s miserable she won’t admit it.
If you try to “save” them, you’ll only push her farther away. Just be her friend, and be there for her when she falls.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 50 minutes after post)

Webcam helps!! :D patience is a virtue. Let them spend this time apart to see where the relationship can go. :D

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (11 hours, 34 minutes after post)

He won’t be able to just come to Australia and live here with her. It’s not quite as simple as that. He will have to apply for a particular visa. There are different ones. Holiday Visa, Work Visa, Immigrant, etc.

Then how will he support himself ? If he can’t show he can financially support himself, there is no way he will be granted a visa. The only other way to do it, is if she will enter into a contract for 4 years with the government and agree that she will financially support him for the 4 years.

If he comes to Australia now, or soon. He will need to return to his own country while applying for a marriage licence. It’s a really really weird set up with this one, but anyway.

What country is he from ?

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