Love help: my life has takin a masive turn and i fell like im drownding under it. - Help.com

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my life has takin a masive turn and i fell like im drownding under it.

i have a boyfriend that i love and a job. but i cry my self to sleep. because i have no friends and no comunication to the out side world. i have a best friend that is my only friend and when we do go out he flips out because i was gone for and hour. and i personally think thats not fair.. he go and hangs out wit his frinds and smokes and drinks.. theres a three year age difference.. 21 to 18… is there any one out htere that can help me please feel free to message me an give me advice… WHAT SHOULD I DO???? and if you break up i have 20 million times he jus keeps comin bac and when i tell him no its over he dont give up in till i say ok

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Vilén offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Think of another (better) candidate for a boyfriend. Break up, and go with him. He’ll stop.

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Time Traveller offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

If you really want to break up with your boyfriend, I think you should do it and then you might feel better.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

It sounds as if he is very controlling towards you, very protective and loyal. Although he probably loves you…You have to ask is it true love, does he flirt or look at other girls? Just to see the meaning of his love. Besides that he doesn’t sound like a decent man if he does all the things he tells you not to do..and smokes and drinks..But mostly ask yourself do you really truly love him? and if so let him know how you feel and that he shouldn’t do what he does..and if he truly loves you he won’t..and you can leave him, in peac if he doesn’t change..

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