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is it me?

is there something wrong with me?
it seems like every person i meet isnt really who i thought they were. every friend i’ve ever had is now gone.
i separated my self from them because it just turns out that everyone is shady, no one is your friend, no one really cares about you. and theres like no one new to talk to in my school. everyone is so 2-faced, backstabbing, gossip interested, and materialistic. theres no one new to talk to or meet so what do i do. i have like no friends now but i dont want to go back to my crappy old friends. is it better to just be alone? is it me? is there something wrong with me? what should i do?

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Anonymous #
4 years, 5 months ago (21 minutes after post)

I know what you mean, the whole world is sick. Nothing wrong with you, you are just more perceptive and you can see people for what they really are. Too bad people are so twisted, though. If you want friends, you have to shut down this part of you who sees through them. I’d tell you being alone is better, but it’s not really true (it does have its advantages, though). The best thing would be if you could find a person who isn’t rotten inside, but believe me they are rare. Good luck.

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Anonymous #
4 years, 5 months ago (40 minutes after post)

but its like everyone at my highschool is so rotten and fake and i just wish they would cut the bs. theres like no new kids or anything to meet and talk to

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (2 hours, 1 minute after post)

Try joining clubs or find groups with similar interests as you. You’ll find that common interests lead to common personalities that mesh with yours.

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (2 hours, 2 minutes after post)

Btw, it’s not you. You’re just maturing faster than everyone else of your age around you.

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (1 day, 19 hours after post)

well, I can relate to what you’re feeling… it’s true, people are mostly 2 faced…
its not only you. there are more of us who feel this way. but still, there are a few worthy of attention and conversation. it’s just hard to find them… think about the people around you - the ones you know and the ones you don’t. maybe theres someone interesting you don’t know very well, so make an effort to meet them. you could be surprised that there are some really good people who can be your best friends, which you can trust everthying. just keep looking and stay opened for new friendships.

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Anonymous #
4 years, 5 months ago (3 days after post)

thanks everyone this is really good advice :)

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