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I told one of my good friends that I like her as more than a friend but she said that she doesn’t feel the same way about me. She just wants to stay friends. I know I can’t change the way she feels but what do I do now?

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I want out offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Sorry! I will have to restate one of my quotable replies.

Among you’re friends, I care for you the most. Among you’re friends, I love you the most. Among you’re friends, you hurt me the most. ‘Because I know that’s all I am to you… among your friends…

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jordynsofres offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

sorry, but I don’t get what your quote means. ?

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I want out offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

It means that you are her friend, she sees you that way. You can’t do anything to change that. It is hard, but love her that way too

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ldee47 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

keep on moving
it hurts, i kno it does- but u’ll find someone who likes u more than tht, more thn just a friend

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mahal7_ offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Calgary, AB, CA | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

You cannot make someone love you, so you don’t have a choice but to stay friends with her. What else is there to do?
Be a really great friend to her and who knows? Maybe someday, she’ll change her mind…
Good luck

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