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im a 14 year old girl whos under a lot of stress.

i have a 16 year old sister whos constantlu ******** i have a brother who is 14 and is always fighting with my 11 year ols brother my dads always working soo we can pay the bills n my mom lives with her boyfriend and is a drugy my life has been chaos and im the only one who is taking everything serious i have the chance to go back up north where it would be better because i can be a kid instead of helping my sister take care of my brothers im always home i never go out n my mom just wont buge and let me and my siblings go back up north and my dad cant take care of us nomore. and im abvout to just have a panic attack and i have no clue what to do nomore my brothers fight soo much its like one of them is gonna get seriously hurt.my sister ******* all the time when shes told to clean up abd im the only one who cleans and does EVERYTHINGG!! and im soo freaked out this has been going on foe 4 years.
and i dont no what to do any more.

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BFree offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

What or who is up north for you? Take a deep breath. Believe in yourself, you can get through this? What is up north?

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Many times things just seem to be crashing down, your entire life seems to be one long trail of cleaning and taking care of others when in reality your the one who needs to be taken care of. I know how it is. but there are other people depending on you now, were here if you need to talk but somtimes you have to be strong for their sake .

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Do you have any other relatives that could help your family out? It’s unfair for your parents to be putting so much responsibility on to you and your sister.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

We can’t help you if you don’t help us by answering though..

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

ask to have an “alone time” away form all sibs, with Dad. Tell him how you feel, and what is going on! It will help I know it. I have done it myself. K?

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