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My boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago. We were doing a long distance relationship. I am in miami and he is in indiana. I have not heard from him for two eeks and I have not called him either. Should i ontinue waiting for him or ahould I move on with my life? What can I do to forgot about him?

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AllyRyan24 offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

What was the reason for him breaking up with you? If it was a personal reason, give him some more time. Maybe he just needs some time to find himself (as lame as that sounds, but that really is what can cause break ups). If it was some silly excuse… move on. If he doesn’t take the time to tell you whats up, he might be distracted by something else. Giving you time to get distracted by a certain someone else! :)

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Neutra offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

Just do what you like to do, to take your mind off of him.

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pluto_goddes offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Austin, TX, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (9 hours, 45 minutes after post)

DEFF move on, long distance relationships are too hard. They cause too much stress on your relationship, date casually if you want to wait for him, But honestly if he wasn’t going to wait for you, don’t wait for him.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (16 hours, 46 minutes after post)

well he left me because i am really insecure. I cant seem to trust and im sometimes paranoid of any guy cheating on me. I hate feeling that way. It frustrates me. He just told me that he couldnt take my insecurity and that I never trust him. I do ewant him back. I have not talked to him for two weeks. what do i do?

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kmw123 offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (20 hours, 3 minutes after post)

I think you sould wait for at least another week and if he does not call you break up with him.

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crazycraz048 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (22 hours, 26 minutes after post)

he broke up with me. I want to either get back with him or if i cant get back with him how do i move on? its really hard i think about him sometimes and other times i dont. He had blocked me on aim but now he unblocked me… what is that suppose to mean?

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kmw123 offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

I think he may still like you too and he is probaly thinking he made a big mistake.

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