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I have a crush on a guy in one of my classes, but the thing is he likes someone else.

That someone else is my best friend. She says she doesn’t like him, but the way she acts around him makes it obvious she is totally falling for him. After shes talked to him she always has a new look in her eyes. My heart aches and I’ve never felt about a guy like a do now. Yet I don’t want to hate my best friend. What should I do?!!!

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aliciastrou offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

mabey your being to obvious guys like to chase after girls its a lil thrill mabey he likes your friend cause he feels he has to earn her.. put yourself on a pedistool dont settle and dont make your self seem so intrested in him or whats going on with him or her.. trust me, im great at getting any guy i want…

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jioejioe offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

take you best shot, then if you fail try to move on. at least then you can not have any regrets about trying.

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Yukonman offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
San Clemente, CA, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

well here is my two cents first guys love the chase in fact we get caught up in it sometimes but that is for a later time alicia is right and if he doesn’t end up saying yes its fine I have meet two girls that i could have swore that i would be with for the rest of my life so don’t worry about it i know its hard but the feelings you have now happen again and again so dont worry about it try to be a hard to get girl we like it.
Happy Hunting,
-JB

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tooglebee offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

Well the thing is I have liked other guys before but this one just feels different. It really does, and I’m afraid I’ll lose my best friend because of it

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