Love help: My boyfriend said his moving to america! - Help.com

if you truely love him you will let him follow his dreams, and I know that is hard. PLus if he is not serious and this is a mean joke u do not need him

i know dear. but love is not about what you get it is all about what you give. giving him the freedom to go, giving yourself time to heal, giving it a chance to all work out. do not worry about what you can not control

you can do anything. do not underestimate yourself. you do not have to have anyone. moving on can be a long process. some people have to go through all the stages of grief. just give yourself time

you could try that. go with your gut. i am a big believer in gut feelings

well try a long distance type thing

My fiancae and i will be apart for the last year of our engagement because he will be in law school, but I love him enough to make it work. True i will miss his arms around me and miss the way his hair falls on his face but in the long run the pain of him not being with me in person will pay off

well there you go dear. love yourself.

If u are just 16, u probably don’t absolutely know what u are doin’. he must go and u can’t go with him. the only option u have is to move on and get used to being without him, there is nothin u can do. u said he is ur boyfriend remember! not ur husband. it’s hard but reality is reality. u have to let go.

Sad_Kia, almost every teenager has a teenage romance. And then transitions occur . . . people going off to university, to a faraway job or to the military. The truth is, over 99.99 percent of high school romances simply fade away . . . and become the treasured memories of growing up.

It will soon be your turn to enter the wider world . . . to go and realize your dreams.

Have your own dreams and goals, Sad_Kia . . . don’t try to just live in the shadow of someone else’s dreams and goals. And, once you have become a complete person in your own right, you will be ready to enter a relationship as a full equal . . . and that’s really the only way to do it!

So, concentrate on your studies, decide what you want to be, and go after your own goals!