first i’m a person.hope you don’t hate me for no reason.
there’s too much pressure on you,i think. relax, a trave may help.do you have any hobbies? you can get yourself busy.then you won’t be so upset.
U should talk to a doctor, u might be suffering from depression cos of an inbalance in some hormones, or probably u need counselling on how to live a meaningful life. are u a teenager, sometimes it comes naturally and then it goes away.make friends and get indulged in somethin’ like t.v. comedy.
I’m sorry. I shouldn’t have said I hate people. I’m always in bad temper,I guess,so I’m not friendly towards people often. I’m so glad to see your answers. I haven’t been talked to very much at school.
l_3556_ wrote:
I’m sorry. I shouldn’t have said I hate people. I’m always in bad temper,I guess,so I’m not friendly towards people often. I’m so glad to see your answers. I haven’t been talked to very much at school.
the basic qualities of people are the same whether at school or here.
have you heard:there are 1000 steps between us.if you take the fist step,then the rest 999 steps-i’ll run to you
“i hate ppl for no reason”
well ofcourse there is a reason, but you are not willing to admit what it is right now… you are sad for a reasons as well for thinking you are a failer but i tell you ” you are not your job or how much money you make … ” [fight club]
Thank you. I am not my job or how much money I make. I will remember this.
sd_lilian wrote:
the basic qualities of people are the same whether at school or here.
have you heard:there are 1000 steps between us.if you take the fist step,then the rest 999 steps-i’ll run to you
I know my classmates are all friendly and nice.But sometimes the first step is so difficult. I have trouble looking people in the eye while talking,and sometimes I’m just too nervous to start conversation,not even asking the time. Sometimes I just sat still and stared at my desk,wondering how I could join the two girls talking and giggling beside me.So I avoid talking to people and make no friend.I felt so ashamed of having so very little connection with others.I wish some day I would get up in the morning and find myself changed into another person. Well ,I have to do something to change.
well,sometimes I also wish some day I would get up in the morning and find myself changed into another person. however that’s only a joke.
if you don’t want to look other’s eyes,then you can look at their nose.it’s a good idea.you can try it
do you have an idol if i may ask?
sd_lilian wrote:
well,sometimes I also wish some day I would get up in the morning and find myself changed into another person. however that’s only a joke.if you don’t want to look other’s eyes,then you can look at their nose.it’s a good idea.you can try it
Thank you, I’ll try and maybe I will find that people’s noses can also tell something.:)
jabal_nazza wrote:
do you have an idol if i may ask?
Not really.
l_3556_ wrote:
[quote sd_lilian]well,sometimes I also wish some day I would get up in the morning and find myself changed into another person. however that’s only a joke.if you don’t want to look other’s eyes,then you can look at their nose.it’s a good idea.you can try it
Thank you, I’ll try and maybe I will find that people’s noses can also tell something.:)
if the nose can tell something ,keep me updated.hehe….
do you know the meaning of “hehe”
the cure is within you, this mostly happen when you give a lot of attention to what others might think of you….start building up the confedince and attract your positive sides …..u cannot change in one day, it will take time, but a slight daily or weekly progress will drive where you want to be….u should fight and fight and be stubborn about it
sd_lilian wrote:
do you know the meaning of “hehe”
Yes,of course.I am Chinese,too.
jabal_nazza wrote:
the cure is within you, this mostly happen when you give a lot of attention to what others might think of you….start building up the confedince and attract your positive sides …..u cannot change in one day, it will take time, but a slight daily or weekly progress will drive where you want to be….u should fight and fight and be stubborn about it
Yes,I should fight.:) Thank you!
我不在高三。我是“今日辍学生，明日贫困户”来着。我 明年可能要去考个上外的网络学院学学英文和葡萄牙文。 这年头像我这样的文盲着实不多了。
这个样子~~~好好学啊~~~你英语不错的
（用汉语聊真舒服啊，呵呵）
别啊~~~我也不是个厉害的
anyway,认识你很高兴啊
你都学这专业了就是很厉害的了啊。呵呵。认识你也很高 兴，请多多关照。
I remember feeling like that. Melancholy - that’s the word I found in a book. It never really went away. I wondered if I was different. Why I had been singled out for sadness. And I realised I was just made that way. Made to feel things more deeply and profoundly… from the sad things to the happy ones. In the middle there is just indifference although sometimes I would rather that as it pains me less. Life is beautiful. Although sometimes I would prefer to blindly stumble through. Some of us are made this way…tears, isolation, sadness etc etc etc. Human nature in all its colours and varieties. You are not just different. You are special. You can feel more in one moment than many people feel in a lifetime. Treasure it. You’d be surprised how many of us there are… x
Oh,thank you.We are all different.And I was just thinking,perhaps if I can feel less in a lifetime than many people feel in one moment,I should also treasure it. There are so many different things to feel and there is so much world to see. What things should we feel deeply and profoundly? And how much feelings are enough for a person? I don’t want the answers. I just want to control myself when I feel too much . And I want to be doing something other than feeling sad. Thank you for telling me there are so many people like me, but I still want to change myself.
Hi. I’m glad I have made some small difference. When I feel this way I usually wallow in self-pity for a day or so and then kick myself out of it by going for a run and listening to the loudest, badest music I can find on my iPod. Then I’m too knackered to worry about myself but feel regenerated and empowered enough to kick the world in its teeth. How does that sound?
My View…
Don’t Run… Don’t fear anything… Love yourself…
share your feelings with someone…if noone is their for you,remember i am here…( i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>)
-Do some yoga
1.Go and try to help people.
2.Read books,Sing a Song ,chat with people… Propose someone you like…
3.People are very negative … B positive.
Keep smiling .. not for others but for urself..
noone likes frown faces..
take care
sd_lilian
temilola_bakar
tricky
jabal_nazza
peach-pi
amit40.