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I hate my ex.

i mean really hate. i wish he would die.
if he dies, i will not cry. i will crap my hands.
i hate him that much.

am i mentally ill?
i think the hate will disappear as time goes by. i know.

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Anonymous #
11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 29 minutes after post)

why don’t you just move on with your life and forget him…..

doesnt work like that!

I know the feeling, you really hate them, i understand, it will eventualy fade,takes a long time though, i still hate mine abit,lol

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pluto_goddes offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Austin, TX, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (6 hours, 31 minutes after post)

Yeah i really hate my ex too. Its natural to hate someone that broke your heart, especially when they’re so happy after. But honestly, you just need to forget him and move on, nothing you do will make you hurt less, i promise.
jjlove, it may mean something else, he doesn’t really hate you if its cute, i tell my friends that all the time when they’re bing stupid and its funny, but its all out of love.

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Anonymous #
11 months, 3 weeks ago (18 hours, 26 minutes after post)

I moved on. I know i have no feeling to him.
But when i remember how much I sacrificed him and s**t, F**K. i hate him!!!!
I forget him but when i remember I will hate him. u know whata mean?

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pluto_goddes offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Austin, TX, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (18 hours, 55 minutes after post)

Yeah i know what you mean, but you have to NOT think about him. Whenever you do, just change your thought process, think about something else. I know what you mean when hating your ex. I spent SO much time, money and effort in that damned relationship that ended! It wasn’t worth it in the end, but honestly you just ned to take what you learned from that relationship, and take it on to the next relationship, learn from your mistakes- trusting him so much- but don’t take it out on the next guy, it really isn’t worth sabotaging another relationship over this.

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annoymou offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (4 weeks after post)

I completely get the hate thing. I feel a loathing for my lying, cheating, thieving, dead-beat, lying, punk, sorry *&(*&^% for a fether, ex husband! We were married for 23 years;I was diagnosed with a chronic illness. He dropped our health insurance and quit his job and moved in with another woman that he cheated with in the early part of our marriage. He had many others in between. I am praying to move from hate to indifference. Right now, it would be nothing less than a lie to say anything but I hate him and would not spit on him if I found him dehydrating in the Mojave desert! He is a a monster! I often wonder why people say that you have to move on. Why doesn’t anybody ever say…Too bad that another human being is so rotten? How come nonbody ever says that a person that treats another human being with such horror should get his? Why is the victim always the one that needs to move on. Maybe I will move on after I pay all of the debt he left, and finish raising the daughter that he abandoned both emotionally and financially!

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