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This guy that I’ve got to know kinda asked me out.He

ask if maybe we could go catch a movie or do some stuff together together.and I’m not even close to him, I feel nervous and I hope i dont screw up and leave a bad impression.

First thing’s first:
we kinda know each other for a few weeks.
However, I feel inferior to him somehow, he’s too good for me. I don’t know, he’s popular and
he knows many people. And I don’t know what will happen, like I don’t think i’ll fit in with the people he hangs out with..
I’m someone with few words, I lack humor and I think I’m a boring person. I’m not the entertainer and I don’t talk alot, not because i’m shy but i just have nothing to say. I need help in that area ): anyone?

anyway, i need advice, on how not to bore him out or anything.

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zone-frea edited this post 11 months, 1 week ago. Read the previous text »

This guy that I’ve got to know kinda asked me out.He ask if maybe we could go catch a movie or do some stuff together together.and I’m not even close to him, I feel nervous and I hope i dont screw up and leave a bad impression.

First thing’s first:
I met him go in the gym and we kinda to know each other for like two weeks already.
However, I feel inferior to him somehow, he’s too good for me. I don’t know, he’s popular and
he knows many people. And I don’t know what will happen, like I don’t think i’ll fit in with the people he hangs out with..
I’m someone with few words, I lack humor and I think I’m a boring person. I’m not the entertainer and I don’t talk alot, not because i’m shy but i just have nothing to say. I need help in that area ): anyone?

anyway, i need advice, on how not to bore him out or anything.

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zone-frea edited this post 11 months, 1 week ago. Read the previous text »

This guy that I’ve got to know kinda asked me out.He ask if maybe we could go catch a movie or do some stuff together together.and I’m not even close to him, I feel nervous and I hope i dont screw up and leave a bad impression.

First thing’s first:
I met him in the gym and we kinda to know each other for like two weeks already.
However, I feel inferior to him somehow, he’s too good for me. I don’t know, he’s popular and
he knows many people. And I don’t know what will happen, like I don’t think i’ll fit in with the people he hangs out with..
I’m someone with few words, I lack humor and I think I’m a boring person. I’m not the entertainer and I don’t talk alot, not because i’m shy but i just have nothing to say. I need help in that area ): anyone?

anyway, i need advice, on how not to bore him out or anything.

zone-frea edited this post 11 months, 1 week ago. Read the previous text »

This guy that I’ve got to know kinda asked me out.He ask if maybe we could go catch a movie or do some stuff together together.and I’m not even close to him, I feel nervous and I hope i dont screw up and leave a bad impression.

First thing’s first:
we kinda to know each other for a few weeks.
However, I feel inferior to him somehow, he’s too good for me. I don’t know, he’s popular and
he knows many people. And I don’t know what will happen, like I don’t think i’ll fit in with the people he hangs out with..
I’m someone with few words, I lack humor and I think I’m a boring person. I’m not the entertainer and I don’t talk alot, not because i’m shy but i just have nothing to say. I need help in that area ): anyone?

anyway, i need advice, on how not to bore him out or anything.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

yeah right you don even know who im talking about

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*Dougie* offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

Don’t worry the troll has been reported! ;)

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kelleybill offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

if he really likes you and he likes you then you wont have to try hard to get along or start a conversation.

if you like my advice talk to me on my E-mail

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zone-frea offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

what’s your email ?

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zoo_baw offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

he asked you out most probably because you are you, not the person you think he wants you to be. just be yourself, and don’t change yourself for the sake of ‘pleasing’ him. though, just be nice and open are hints enough that you sort of liked him too. good luck.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

Dont be giving your email ouy to unverified users!
Its possibly a troll!
Chat about it here in a safe place!

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zone-frea offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

troll?

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*Dougie* offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

Pesky little people that get on this site with I’m sad to say monotonous regularity!
They create an account, get straight onto posts and either say very mean things, or try to con people’s email address out of them.

If this reply is fro someone who is serious about helping you, they will verify their account, add an avatar and add something real about themself on their profile!

So far this user has not done this. So until they become a serious user. Ignore them!

The last few days have been really bad with trolls, and they seem to appear in numbers at certain times of day. This is one of those times of day!

They have nothing better to do then spam the site.
And this one could even be a con artist.

Please be careful!

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zone-frea offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (27 minutes after post)

oh okay thanks. but i really need help!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

Sorry, i was going to give some advice. I just go into troll alert automatically lately.

So why do you feel inferior to this friend?
Let’s start there :)

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zone-frea offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

haha can we talk on email?

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*Dougie* offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

Not just now lol
Maybe some time in the future!

For now, we can chat here.
So why do you feel inferior to this friend you like?

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zone-frea offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (33 minutes after post)

i dont know if i like him or not. i dont know i just feel lower than him, you get what i mean? like i’m quite sure he’s going to be one of the elites. while i’m here being nto so sociable?

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Fritwell, K2, GB | 11 months, 1 week ago (35 minutes after post)

Honey he asked you out, he likes you he doesn’t care anout your social standing and neither should you

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Fritwell, K2, GB | 11 months, 1 week ago (35 minutes after post)

He’s not asking you to marry him, just out on a date, take the risk you might get along brilliantly

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (36 minutes after post)

but wht if i bore him out. we only text each other now. we haven’t talked to each other yet

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (37 minutes after post)

You haven’t talked in person?

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (38 minutes after post)

nope we haven’t. actually we only talked online and through texts!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (39 minutes after post)

So really, you haven’t got to know him that well at all then?

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (40 minutes after post)

not that well i guess. thats why i’m scared.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (41 minutes after post)

So how did you get to talking in the first place?

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Fritwell, K2, GB | 11 months, 1 week ago (45 minutes after post)

AS long as you stay safe and let someone know where you are going and go somewhere public then you should meet him, don’t end up regreting the things you didn’t do, if you son’t take the risk you will never know if you had bored him or not

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (49 minutes after post)

umm he added me online yeah.

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