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I had a really bad break up and he moved on so quick and gave her everything I fought for.

For months I heard that he didn’t want a relationship, but after just a few weeks he moved her in. I can’t seem to get over it. I know he’s a jerk, but I can’t stop thinking about him and I miss him more and more everyday. Things ended so badly that I can’t even talk to him.

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WillaTree offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

It sounds like he was cheating on her while he was with you. He had his eye on her and that is why he didn’t want a r’ship…with you that is. I know what you mean about things ending so badly that you can’t even talk to him. I believe this was for the best. He wanted to hurt you and burn the bridge so that it wouldn’t make it ‘harder’ for him. I’m sure he’s not proud of what he did. It’s time to work on yourself and do the things that you used to love. It will get better!

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