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i left my b/f last week,i felt good.

irang him and he was in bits so i came back.we didnt even talk about me leaving,there was no anger or anything on his part.i know i shud still leave,he knows it but hasnt said it to me,but we just keep trundling along ,nothing is getn betr,what can i do to make him see that we need to split up.

ive tried reasoning,ive told him i dont love him.nothing seems to be working.

good counsel pls!

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Morally Ambiguous JD offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 144 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

ehm, you leave him and you don’t get back together, in fact you don’t phone him until hes over you. split up and in time he will get used to it. no matter how much he cries to you over the phone. ditch him and he will get over you. just stay out of his life till he is over you.

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11 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

he was inconsolable when i left. he didnt eat for days.i know i shud go but ….

this is never gonna be easy.

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Morally Ambiguous JD offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 144 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
he was inconsolable when i left. he didnt eat for days.i know i shud go but ….

this is never gonna be easy.

no its not, but hey this is going to happen to him a hell of a lot during his life, so he better learn to suck it up and get over it, trust me hen hes hungry he will eat. when hes thirsty he will drink. he guilted you into going back, hes in the wrong not you. just take my advice and get on with your life, let him get on with his. once you break up have NO FREAKING CONTACT WITH HIM! NONE NONE NONE!!! leave him the FECK alone! he will get over you he will eat he will stop crying, dump him and this time make it final.

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11 months, 4 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

you left him in bits?
Oh dear! That doesn’t sound good.

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