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I been talkin to this girl,now a problem has occured

Basically, i was speaking to her, well txting, and she agreed that we should go out somewhere soon. I said that i would talk to her about it the next day. But the last couple of days ive been really down and pissed off, and i havnt felt like talking to her at all (well i havnt really spoke to anyone but my close mates). i now feel she doesnt like me, or is annoyed with me. She hasnt text me, and seemed to ignore me at college. Its just making me feel even worse

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=Adam= offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Riverton, NJ, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Text her, go up to her, call her, whatever. Just tell her a lot of sh*t has been going on the past few days, and say you’re sorry you’ve been ignoring her. Then ask her if she might be up for going out like she said before. Try to be as loose as possible.

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Ξ.Ģäβž.Ξ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Go talk to her and explain what you just told us. It is completely understandable, we all get like that when we’re down. Are you afraid to approach her and talk to her ?

If she is annoyed, it’s only because, to her, it seems as though you started avoiding her for no apparent reason. She must be so confused. She can’t mind read. You need to go explain about your messed up few days. I’m sure she will be as keen if not keener to go out with you now.

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=Adam= offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Riverton, NJ, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Uh, Jinx? :D

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dan.- offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

yeh i kno just need to talk to her…just need to improve my mood first

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dan.- offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

sry i posted this, didnt mean to do it anonymously

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WillaTree offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

I wouldn’t do what Adam suggested. If a guy gives me that line than I know I wasn’t a priority to him and I move on. Do what Gabz says, tell her the truth (what you told us).

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=Adam= offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Riverton, NJ, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

WillaTree wrote:
I wouldn’t do what Adam suggested. If a guy gives me that line than I know I wasn’t a priority to him and I move on. Do what Gabz says, tell her the truth (what you told us).

Oh, really? Ok, then I’LL remember not to use that line too. :/

I always thought of it as more generic than that. To me, “Change of mood” falls under the category of “sh*t”.

Well, then I agree. Just explain it like you did right now.

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vison offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

move on and call her make some romantic thing for her, but U need try to understand what she thought, good luck!

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watson offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

well ur a dum **** if u like her dont let her go and ask her

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 81 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 23 hours after post)

Sounds like you’re a moody loser she will be better off without…

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