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Hi Guys,

I have a friend in england i met online, she is a few years younger than me but she is having some serious issues. i dont think i can help her but am determined to as her friend. and because i was helped by people and i want to give something back. ive been asking her for descriptions of how she is feeling so i can get some accurate advice for her, here are some of the feelings and some rants she has said to me as i try to help her. this is all real and straight from the heart i assure you.

Jane Andrews says:
ergh yeah i hate my job i hate my family i hate the people i live by i hate the fact im single i hate that my family is in so much debt i hate the fact were all brought on this world to eat sleep and work every ****** day until u die unless u get lucky n win the ****** lottry life is seriousley stupid and wats the point in lving it if you cant do watever the **** u want its always a bout rules

Jane Andrews says: no not really but sometimes id just like to have not been born

Mark says:
just describe the way you are feeling in three words
Mark says:
example, depressed sad moody tired angry
Mark says:
etc
Jane Andrews says:
vexxed confused and emotional

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Maybe she just needs a break. Can’t she go on a short vacation? She needs a breather.I understand how she feels. Just be there for her. Keep on telling her that things will be better.

Tell her that she should be at least thankful that she has a job. A lot are wishing to be in her place. She hates her family. Can’t she move out?

Tell her too that…

Life may be sour now but when you’re down,there’s no way to go but up. And we live everyday, even if its already a routine because of the hope that today, would be different. Life is full of surprises and it is this quality in life that makes it worth waking up to. Plus, everyday you get, gives you a chance to do something worthwile, take a step closer to your dreams etc.

I read in The Alchemist that for some, everyday is the same as the next becuase people fail to recognize the good things that happen in their lives everyday.

See life as a gift. Everyday is a blessing even when you’re fed up. Because those who don’t have problems, those who feel no pain…are buried six feet under. Life is sometimes painful. You face challenges and get hurt but we endure it because it’s the only way we experience what life can offer — success, happiness, love, friendship etc.

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