Hello.
I am new to this but I figured I’d give it a shot. My boyfriend(27) of 2 years just broke up with me(23) three days ago because he said he didnt feel the same about me anymore. This came to me as a huge shock as he was acting completely normal towards me(he said he had been questioning it for a while about a month I guess). Now let me tell you about the background story…We have lived together the whole time practically. First with a roomate for a while, then in our own place for 6 months THEN, this is where it gets bad, we moved in with his parents and had been there for 5 months before he broke up with me. We had an amazing relationship until we moved in there. I mean no relationship is perfect but a lot of people were jealous of what we had. Once we moved into his parents house the stress became overwhelming and about 2-3 weeks ago his mother threatened to kick me out and she had a talk with him behind my back about whether or not I was the right one for him. She had pretended to like me up until that point then she let me know all about how if I didnt start working harder and get a part time job by thanksgiving(that gave me 2 weeks) that she would kick me out. I was busting my butt to try to find a new job but we live in a very small town and the economy is terrible so there wasnt much available. Anyways needless to say she didnt end up kicking me out because right after thanksgiving he gave me the boot.
I feel we have always had a very loving relationship and worked things out well when there was tension. He just got his divorce finalized and I think that might have something to do with it along with his controlling neurotic mother.
I want him back so badly. I am absolutely heartbroken over this and I feel that he didnt give me a proper chance to fix the situation. I know he didn’t cheat so count that out, trust me I already thought about that. He told me that he still loves me when he was breaking up with me but I need to prove to him that we can rekindle his feelings. I know we are not married or anything but I think he needs to come back down to earth and realize that he is throwing away a good thing. I need some serious advice! I feel so lost.
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Hello. I am new to this but I figured I’d give it a shot. My boyfriend(27) of 2 years just broke up with me(23) three days ago because he said he didnt feel the same about me anymore. This came to me as a huge shock as he was acting completely normal towards me(he said he had been questioning it for a while about a month I guess). Now let me tell you about the background story…We have lived together the whole time practically. First with a roomate for a while, then in our own place for 6 months THEN, this is where it gets bad, we moved in with his parents and had been there for 5 months before he broke up with me. We had an amazing relationship until we moved in there. I mean no relationship is perfect but a lot of people were jealous of what we had. Once we moved into his parents house the stress became overwhelming and about 2-3 weeks ago his mother threatened to kick me out and she had a talk with him behind my back about whether or not I was the right one for him. She had pretended to like me up until that point then she let me know all about how if I didnt start working harder and get a part time job by thanksgiving(that gave me 2 weeks) that she would kick me out. Anyways needless to say she didnt end up kicking me out because right after thanksgiving he gave me the boot.
I feel we have always had a very loving relationship and worked things out well when there was tension. He just got his divorce finalized and I think that might have something to do with it along with his controlling neurotic mother.
I want him back so badly. I am absolutely heartbroken over this and I feel that he didnt give me a proper chance to fix the situation. I know he didn’t cheat so count that out, trust me I already thought about that. He told me that he still loves me when he was breaking up with me but I need to prove to him that we can rekindle his feelings. I know we are not married or anything but I think he needs to come back down to earth and realize that he is throwing away a good thing. I need some serious advice! I feel so lost.
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