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please help.

.i was seeing my boyfriend..for about a year..and i just found out he was living with his ex -girlfriend and just had a baby, then two weeks later i found out that i was pregnant and he’s tell me not to have the baby and i don’t want nothing to do with him anymore…

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tjwoods offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (25 minutes after post)

It sounds like you are feeling very hurt and are not sure what to do about your pregnancy. You have told us what the father wants done, but not what your desires are. Do you feel conflicted, like part of you wants to do one thing and part of you wants to do another?

This is not an easy situation, but you don’t have to go through it alone. You can tell us more if you would like, and there are many organizations that provide assistance to pregnant women, especially if you are under 18.

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R????? offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

you shouldnt hve the baby if you realy wont nuting to do with him agen then you are doing the rong ting by haing a baby becuase the baby will have to see its father and you will be sad and nver get over him or even worse the baby will live with the pain of having no father.i dont tink it right to get rid of the baby but if you dont he will have a part of your life foreva and it will be so hard for you to move on.gud luck

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