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The real me.

I having a really hard time ,im becoming depressed becuse I wont to become a better person..I need inspiration and a completely different outlook on life, I dont wont a perfect body….
Can I change my atitude and personality on life through sheer will or il it be a painful tranformation..
The reason for this…ive let down so many people including myself with some of the decisions ive made.
Is there a second chance to reform or have my past faults already make me the person I will remain forever…
please help..im lost

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Morally Ambiguous JD online Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 121 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

you can do it by sheer will, thats how i did it, just make a goal and shoot for it.

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M. Wright offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

It has been my experience that the hardest things for me to accomplish were knowing what I believed and deciding what I wanted. After that, it was easy, because all I had to do was set tiny goals and take steps to accomplish them. Do you know yourself?

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Time Traveller offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

I changed myself alot just by observing and studying psychology. I hope that helps.

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Help me with: How depressed are you on a scale of one to ten with ten being almost dead and one being haveing a smile on your face presently.
*Dougie* offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (5 days, 16 hours after post)

The past is done.
Its now the present.

You have two choices…
1) Continue to be a victim of fate, and accept that you can not change
2) Create your own destiny and live life to the fullest

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