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Just a rant, I have been dating this guy for the last

three years, recently he has been acitng a little weird when we go out, now when I say weird, I mean he is constantly looking over his shoulders, he refuses to go anywhere unless it is dark outside and we always have to take my car. So of course the first thing in my mind is he is cheating!!! When I asked him if he was cheating on me he told me no. (of course) after the second time with him doing this I made the joke that if you are not cheating then you must be married…..well he did not laugh, in fact he told me that he is married. shocked I asked how long? He told me 15years. still trying to figure out how I did not figure this out in three years. thinking he may have been seperated or something, because there was no signs, like a wedding ring or the mark on the finger, I had his phone number, I have been to his house, meet his kids. Now I do love him and I have broken it off with him, it is hard form me to not to answer when he calls. It has been two weeks.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

well try to find a guy that you like and try to figer things out before you do that (if you do)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

my my are you meshuggah? Don’T notice anything? Come on you didn’t want to notice .What sort of future you going to have with this impost er? Well If you were a Muslim he can get away with it ,but that means you have to wear the cover and hide under it.Grow up there is plenty outside for you to have a future >a real” Future “…

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (35 minutes after post)

o wow ! well sad to say rebounds help keep urself busy avoid any places u might run into to him and if u do talk to him try and keep it as short as possible… if he kept that from u he ll keep anything from u hes not a trustworthy person try and stay away

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