Feel help: I feel like god gave up on me and I ready to give up to. - Help.com

um….try to get another job? apply for social assistance? don’t blame “god” for your problems?

I didn’t say you were asking for money. You said “i just don’t know what to do anymore” i was suggesting things you could do.

Hey friend, I am pretty much in the same boat and I know how you feel. There is no ‘answer’. Dont really know what to say.

Moe, listen. The truth is death is an option, but it is not an ‘answer’. You have a choice; you can choose death, or you can choose life. My personal thought is that death is nothing but a ******* hole in the ground. Choose life.

Even a miserable life is better then no life.

it is tough, all you can do is hang on, and let this situation run its course.

The more you let yourself get down about things, the less you feel motivated to fix your problems.
Be ready to take your problem on and don’t dwell on it basically.

think of it as an oppourtunity for growth. Do this; go on google and do an image search for “starving children”. Look at the pictures then come back and tell us how you feel.

Be thankful for what you have.

Funny you mention this my friend moved to Missoula almost a year ago and worked at the local hospital. It didn’t work out and he moved back to So Cal many more great opportunities here and the pay scale is higher he and his family are much happier.

Based on my friends experiences he said Montana was a very unfriendly place. He came back to Los Angeles area and things got a whole lot better.

I understand

Dont lose faith my dear!
I know how you feel though. I get angry with God all the time! But in the end it seems that god probably has your best interest in mind. You know miracles in disguise…
So first things first…a new job would be what your main concern is.
maybe you can check craigslist?
or perhaps the newspaper?

and your attitude is whats going to get you the furthest. If your keep your head up good things are sure to follow!
easier said than done huh? I know, but try and try again!
: )

moe4harle wrote:
people here are not friendly that is for sure maybe that why I like it am a single 44 yr old that found a dark hole to live. don’t know nobody here and nobody know me

Man that sounds exactly like my friend. One thing my friend told me is that places like Missoula are extreme in breed which is 3 plus generations so anyone not from there are considered outsiders and sometimes unwelcome. 44 myself but listen the best is yet to come be positive.

moe4harle wrote:
yodle were you live? Im just a county girl myself and your friend is right I have met a few people here that there great great father own land and stuff. You say the best is yet to come and that scary to me. because what else can happen my truck will be gone and so well my harley that I have worked so hard to keep. It just not far

I live in Southern California in an area about 15 miles south of LA called Redondo Beach. My friend was close here for years but when he started his family he wanted to move and chose Montana.I’m near the beach so thats great and get out to the mountains and such less then 2 hours from where I’m at. But one thing he told me when he came back here the salary increase was really nice. He’s at a hospital.

moe you’ll be fine listen there’s so much out there beleive me sometimes you gotta to go through stuff like this to get to the good stuff its ahead you just can’t see it yet.

moe4harle wrote:
moe was born 4-19-64 death 12-4-2008

Don’t do that its not worth it! Listen there’s a whole world that God has made for you just waiting to be explored. Hey I was born 4/28/64 see we already have something in common hang in there.

Remember your never alone.