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I for one have many thoughts on love.

To me love means so much yet is described in the shortest amount of breath I’ve ever known. It is one of those things that people just never seem to have the same exact views in as the person sitting next to them. I know that one of the hardest things for a person to do is to put themselves out there and tell someone they love them when in fear and doubt that the other person will not say it back. If the other person doesn’t say I love you back then it just leaves an awkward silence to deal with. It’s hard to explain how awkward of a silence one will feel when this happens to them for everyone has different thoughts on love.

To me love is a passionate but over used word. It means so much to say I love you but takes so little to say since we are brought up in this world using love everyday. Since the moment we take our first breath we know and hear of love, well usually. It’s those parents of ours that first start to teach us of love and if we have older siblings, like I do, than they help with the learning process as well. As we grow older the love of ours grows too for it’s never staying the same. Love grows with us and sticks long past the end.

Love to teenagers is not as it once was. There are those that wait maybe seven months before they say that they love the other person but than there are those that say it after the first day. To me saying it after a longer time of being together gives the words more meaning and better understanding. If you say how you feel too soon than the other person is less likely to believe you. Love is not a day by day, week by week, month by month, or year by year feeling. Love is to care even after forever and your life or their life is taken away.

Love is not waking up in the morning and just deciding that you’re in love and it should never work that way for anyone. Love is more like building a home in which never ends. Homes are not constantly being moved around and manipulated but if you want to decide that’s how love works than that’s how you describe homes. Homes really are constantly being added to as babies are born and new furniture is bought. Love takes time. Love waits forever. Love lasts even longer.

Love should be so powerful to withstand all hate, crime, sickness, and struggles. Love is to be there even if you’re brought down to poverty. It is not to leave when times get rough but to stick around through everything. Love is the most powerful emotion one can feel and should feel. There is nothing greater than to love and be loved. Love is the key to living a happy and fulfilling life. Love is the reason we all exist as is.

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Kuvri (yodaluv12) offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

Very nice post.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (14 hours, 3 minutes after post)

i like it and agree with every bit of it people say there in love way to easy these days. But what about when u love someone and they dont love u back are you just a victim off love then??

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (4 months after post)

Love is powerful…People are weak
Love is complicated
I can’t describe it, just it’s there

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