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ok seriously why does this happen with almost every guy i have a crush on or like…

.so the guy i like used to be so mean to me like calling me stupid then he started giving compliments then he just started to apologize a lot then he stopped talking to me and only stared at me every once in awhile then he started flirting with this other girl like three days ago(i think i’m not sure if it was flirting) and now he’s totally ignoring me….and today his friends told him to get a girls number(i guess) and he ended up getting some older girls number in the class i have with him….and his friends were saying like hes a player and that he should ask her out and if he was going to call her but even tho i kno he said “dude i’ve known her since like kindergarden so no….” i still think that hes kind of a jerk or trying to hurt me or something but idk….but seriously what does all this mean????….idk should i just give up….??? today i wrote a note asking him if he likes me….and i gave it to my friend to give to him once i left the room(i was to scared to do it to him myself)….should i have dont that???

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Morally Ambiguous JD offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 144 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

it means he picked another girl. get over it, women read far to deeply into things. he picked her not you so its time to forget and move on. thats life.

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ok seriously why does this happen with almost every guy i have a crush on or like….so the guy i like used to be so mean to me like calling me stupid then he started giving compliments then he just started to apologize a lot then he stopped talking to me and only stared at me every once in awhile then he started flirting with other girls(i think) and now he’s totally ignoring me….and today his friends told him to get a girls number(i guess) and he ended up getting some older girls number in the class i have with him….and his friends were saying like hes a player and that he should ask her out and if he was going to call her but even tho i kno he said “dude i’ve known her since like kindergarden so….” i still think that hes kind of a jerk or trying to hurt me or something but idk….but seriously what does all this mean????

ravioli586 edited this post 11 months, 4 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

ok seriously why does this happen with almost every guy i have a crush on or like….so the guy i like used to be so mean to me like calling me stupid then he started giving compliments then he just started to apologize a lot then he stopped talking to me and only stared at me every once in awhile then he started flirting with this other girl like three days ago(i think i’m not sure if it was flirting) and now he’s totally ignoring me….and today his friends told him to get a girls number(i guess) and he ended up getting some older girls number in the class i have with him….and his friends were saying like hes a player and that he should ask her out and if he was going to call her but even tho i kno he said “dude i’ve known her since like kindergarden so no….” i still think that hes kind of a jerk or trying to hurt me or something but idk….but seriously what does all this mean????….idk should i just give up

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Dr Awesome McCool wrote:
it means he picked another girl. get over it, women read far to deeply into things. he picked her not you so its time to forget and move on. thats life.

wow your really mean so why dont you go and get some feelings seriously….

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hana-hime offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 10 minutes after post)

Dump him and leave him … everything you described that he did to you isan’t healthy in a relationship. Don’t waste your time trying to figure this out, he’s obviously not commited to you.

Theres someone better for you out there. There always is.

And I bet that your way to good for him anyway!

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ravioli586 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (4 days after post)

were not dating this is a guy that i like….

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ok seriously why does this happen with almost every guy i have a crush on or like….so the guy i like used to be so mean to me like calling me stupid then he started giving compliments then he just started to apologize a lot then he stopped talking to me and only stared at me every once in awhile then he started flirting with this other girl like three days ago(i think i’m not sure if it was flirting) and now he’s totally ignoring me….and today his friends told him to get a girls number(i guess) and he ended up getting some older girls number in the class i have with him….and his friends were saying like hes a player and that he should ask her out and if he was going to call her but even tho i kno he said “dude i’ve known her since like kindergarden so no….” i still think that hes kind of a jerk or trying to hurt me or something but idk….but seriously what does all this mean????….idk should i just give up….???

jkeo20 offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (6 days, 5 hours after post)

well 2 me….i say 4get da dude…like my sis always say “there are plenty of fishes in da sea”

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