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My mom is driving me insane.

I tried calling her, and she didn’t answer.
So, I called one of her friends, and she started yelling at me because she received all these other people’s phone calls, but not mine.
I told her that I really did call, but she didn’t believe me.
Me and my mom have a horrible relationship, but I don’t want it to be.
I wish we could do like we used to, where we could just sit on the phone for hours, talking about random things that were happening to us.
Now, I can’t even say hi without her yelling at me.
I offered to spend a week with her, and she said no because she works everyday, and every hour of the day.
But yet, she has time to spend at her friends house.
She says that we haven’t talked in 3 months, but we talked earlier in November.
I need help. She seems to hate me, but I didn’t do anything. I was never mean to her, she just doesn’t like me.
I know I’m not exaggerating, because she told me to my face that I was stupid, and that I should just go kill myself.
That’s the day I left her.
I just walked out the house with all my stuff in my hands.
I wasn’t mean or anything.
All I want to do is to be able to talk to her without her doing her stupid talk to me.
She speaks slow to me, like I can’t understand her or something.
All I know, is that it pisses me off.
I don’t want to hate her, but she makes it seem like she wants me to so she can blame that on me too.

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LoneSoldier offline Verified User (11 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

thats rough. real rough.
how long has it been like this?

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Time Traveller offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 13 minutes after post)

Maybe she’s just jealous of you.You are just starting out and have your whole future ahead. It’s a valuable thing that makes people jealous. It’s her weakness that she can’t give you support and help. There might not be anything you can do about it.

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eddythebombdizzl offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (18 hours, 42 minutes after post)

LoneSoldier wrote:
thats rough. real rough.
how long has it been like this?

Forever…
She left my dad and I right after I was born.
We started talking to each other after never speaking with her about 2 years ago.
Then I moved in last year.

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LoneSoldier offline Verified User (11 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 19 hours after post)

what does she like to do? if she has a certain hobby that you are interested in as well, i would suggest that you two could work together on something. i think that would bring you two closer

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