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Is it possibile to love someone you cant date?


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tjwoods offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

People fall in love with people around them who are not available all the time. Of course, people have different ideas of what love is, but by almost any definition you could love someone who you could not date.

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Kuvri (yodaluv12) offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Kangerlussuaq, 01, GL | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Saying you can’t date them makes me think you’re a young teenager. And I’m skeptical about young teens genuinely loving someone in a romantic way.

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veg_head offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

You can become infatuated but I don’t see how you can truly love someone you can’t date, and therefore can’t get to know on a deep, personal level. It is easy to fall for the image someone may project but the real them may be entirely different.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Well, what do you define as “love”? You can love your best friend but not want to date them, per se, but love is a complicated emotion and is often mistaken for something a lot less. I’d say yeah, it’s possible, but without knowing the situation I’m not exactly sure what else to say about it.

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marisa_ts offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

Of course. Some may fall in love with others who are already in a relationship. Or cant be with them because of their religion, or because that other person donesnt have interest in them. This guy is in love with me, and Im in a serious relationship.
So yes, Its possible.

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anapatheticguy offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (5 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Yes it’s very possible to fall in love with someone you can’t date. I assume the person is a close friend of some sort, perhaps in a relationship. In any event, it’s a good idea to tell the person how you feel, but be careful not to jeopardize their relationship (if they’re in one).

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