Love help: This guy had no interest in me until I got a boyfriend, and I really liked him and still kinda do. - Help.com

shelbylynnfarme
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This guy had no interest in me until I got a boyfriend, and I really liked him and still kinda do.

He was stringing me along and stuff, so I just went for another guy, I mena why waste my time? But then he started to like me as sooon as I got my boyfriend, and I was reading my friends texts and saw that he was really sorry for stringing me along and he has always liked me…. I like him =[

What do I do????

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Jamiee offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

I was in a similar situation a while back. It depends which guy you like more. And how much it would hurt your boyfriend if you left him for this guy. Also if this guy turns out to not be as nice as you think he is…it’s not guna be simple enough to then change back to your current boyfiend…if that makes sense?

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friend in the shadow offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Fairport, NY, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

whatever you do dont wait awhile to decide cause if your current b/f finds out about this other guy it might not be a good situation you want to be in, and you need to be clear to the guy if you stay with your b/f so you dont so the same thing he did to you of stringing you along…

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Is he worth it, this other guy? Or is he just stringing you along again?

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qtdeedee0 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

thats something you have to think about because if you have a good relationship it would be messed up to leave it for an old crush n what if you get with him and he isnt what u thought he was idk just think of the pros and cons of the situation good luck

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peaceluvsoccer offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (3 months after post)

you were right to not waste your time and move on. But if you have feelings for this other guy either break up with your bf or say to the guy your crushing on, i do like you and all but now im in a relationship…

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