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I just gotta blow out some steam, Sorry.

Okay, So we had another volleyball game. Against the team we lost to last game. Last year we didn’t lose ANY games. And we already lost 2, and the season just started.

Our coach doesn’t know wtf she is doing. She always says me and my two other friends are the best player. But yet, she didn’t let one of my friends play the ENTIRE game. And she made me sit out the first and third round. (Aren’t there only two rounds in volleyball?) We tied…

It just pisses me off cuz she ALWAYS sits me out when I’m doing good. Right when the team really needs me and stuff…I’m like, wtf if we’re the best players why do you keep sitting us out?
So we lost this game…Like last time.

I know I sound like a sore loser, but it’s not that we lost or anything. It’s not that we lost, it’s the reason WHY we lost. And she was all complaining like its our fault, and really it’s hers. Taking out all the good players…She appears not to know what she’s doing.

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I just gotta blow out some steam, Sorry.

Okay, So we have another volleyball game. Against the team we lost to last game. Last year we didn’t lose ANY games. And we already lost 2, and the season just started.

Our coach doesn’t know wtf she is doing. She always says me and my two other friends are the best player. But yet, she didn’t let one of my friends play the ENTIRE game. And she made me sit out the first and third round. (Aren’t there only two rounds in volleyball?) We tied…

It just pisses me off cuz she ALWAYS sits me out when I’m doing good. Right when the team really needs me and stuff…I’m like, wtf if we’re the best players why do you keep sitting us out?
So we lost this game…Like last time.

I know I sound like a sore loser, but it’s not that we lost or anything. It’s not that we lost, it’s the reason WHY we lost. And she was all complaining like its our fault, and really it’s hers. Taking out all the good players…She appears not to know what she’s doing.

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veg_head offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Your coach shouldn’t be blaming you guys for her calls. Maybe she is trying to let everyone play, or doesn’t want anyone to be left out (like little league games that don’t keep score). It must be frustrating but don’t start up with her. If you want to speak up do it respectfully and with some other teammates so she can’t single you out and kick you off the team if you make her angry!

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (8 minutes after post)

She let everyone play in the first two rounds. It was in the 3rd round where she really screwed up.

I’m not going to say anything to her, It just bothers me.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (8 hours, 22 minutes after post)

Is this coach the same one you had last season?

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (21 hours, 30 minutes after post)

Yes it’s the same coach as last season. I really don’t know what happened to her, because last year we were the league champions and we didn’t lose ANY games. The season just started and we already lost two.

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (21 hours, 30 minutes after post)

steph_89 wrote:
My coach did this…well it was more favorites then anything. But she would always say oh you guys are the best players on the team yet we got little to no playing time. Our team sucked, our “best server” couldnt even serve wtf lol

Yea, I hate when coaches do that. It’s frustrating.

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