life help: i have lost control of my life i feel like i’m in a whole and i’m screaming for help but no one is listening ?

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i have lost control of my life i feel like i’m in a whole and i’m screaming for help but no one is listening ?

? i had my second baby .. and i feel terrible now.. why what is up with that… i cry 95% of the day and my husband and i recently moved in with my parents cause we both lost our jobs and right before Christmas, i mean really give me a break not to mention that my younger sibling lives in the house still and tells me 24/7 that i’m a piece of crap, worthless and get no support from any direction i’m going …?? which could be the reason i don’t want to get out of bed or i’m sick all the time???? can anyone help??

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chev.jame 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

You probably have postpartum depression.

Added to that is stress from job loss, and having to move in with your parents. Tell your younger sibling to bugger off–life isn’t perfect.

You need to see a doctor. It could be the postpartum thing, or it could be that you are just run down. You’ve really been through a lot. It’s no wonder your body craves rest.

But please do see a doctor. You don’t want to take any chances with your health–and your kids and especially your husband needs you right now!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

You are almost certainly suffering from post-partum depression. That is a medical condition, not some silly thing in your mind. It is caused by the hormonal imbalances caused by your body adjusting to the end of your pregnancy. A DOCTOR can help you! Arrange to see one ASAP!!
But I would also get your parents onside about your younger sibling - their behaviour is simply inexcusable. You and your husband are going through a difficult time - as are millions of others because the economy is tanking - and you don’t deserve that crap. INSIST it has to stop. You guys are adults and need to put your lives back together without younger bro/sis making things worse. Your parents (and husband) all have to be onside about that.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Hi,
When I had my son, I was really sad afterwards too. It was all the hormones that are stablizing after this huge baby has left your body. It is a real shock. It went away after a couple months. Get a hobby, that helps the brain focus on something other than sadness. Adding to that the other problems you are facing right now. Getting out really helped me, staying in didnt. And your children have no other Mother except you! Be there for them. Good always faces evil, appreciate who you are and stand up to your sibling! Pull out the inner strength you have and be the best Mom you can be! Those kids need you! Do it for them.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Your siblings need to get off their high horses; they have the best view in the room when you don’t have to look at themselves.

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veg_head 6 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

oops, uh they have the best view in the room when THEY have to look at themselves, I mean.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 months, 1 week after post)

weed is the answer

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