This one should be easy…
After “taking it slow” with my boy friend more than three years ago, i decided to help him out of his previous situation of struggling to pay bills and move him into a place of our own. I suppose you’ll tell me the smart thing to have done was wait because if he couldn’t pay his own bills what would make me think he’d help me pay ours? Well that should have been an easy decision, but it wasn’t, and I really think I made the wrong one. I’ve been through my fourth job and as of Wednesday I’m looking for my fifth. This time my boss came into my office and informed me he didn’t have the money to pay me through January. I’ve worked so hard, and he hasn’t, I’ve gone 40,000 dollars in debt, and now he says he’s over his “issues” and realizes he has to get a job to help. I was ok with that until Wednesday. Maybe losing work and not finding a new job is not such a bad thing? I’ll have to move home unfortunately, but i could help my family and pay my debt down. It’s too bad I fell in love with a scrub. :(
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