Try not to move so fast. Remember, people put their best foot forward when they first meet someone. So that might not necessarily be the REAL her. Wait and see. I know it’s exciting and fulfilling to meet somebody that you vibe with but take is slow.
Be like your avatar!
Zen!
Also I am jealous…..
I love Spanish women…. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr uff!
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Be like your avatar!Zen!Also I am jealous…..I love Spanish women…. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr uff!
Be like my avatar, interesting.
Well I don’t mean be a statue, or blue! Or sit in that pose….
I mean be calm! :)
And centred :)
sickofdoublestandard wrote:
Try not to move so fast. Remember, people put their best foot forward when they first meet someone. So that might not necessarily be the REAL her. Wait and see. I know it’s exciting and fulfilling to meet somebody that you vibe with but take is slow.
So overblown jesters of love are a no-no then?
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Well I don’t mean be a statue, or blue! Or sit in that pose….I mean be calm! :)And centred :)
I got what you meant, I’m socially dim, not stupid :P
Yeah, stay zen, be cool, calm, stay focussed. :)
Give her your winning smile, ask questions, all the usual stuff.
You only stay cool because you dont want to put her in a position where she is forced to say no or yes.
Just give her a chance to smile back or ask a question back, find out about each other.
Thats my view anyways
Zenn wrote:
sickofdoublestandard wrote:
Try not to move so fast. Remember, people put their best foot forward when they first meet someone. So that might not necessarily be the REAL her. Wait and see. I know it’s exciting and fulfilling to meet somebody that you vibe with but take is slow.
So overblown jesters of love are a no-no then?
Huge no no. You can show her you like her but don’t go overboard. No gifts or anything like that. Wait another couple of days and call her up. Don’t let her know you’re dying without her or anything. LOL
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sickofdoublestandard wrote:
Zenn wrote:
sickofdoublestandard wrote:
Try not to move so fast. Remember, people put their best foot forward when they first meet someone. So that might not necessarily be the REAL her. Wait and see. I know it’s exciting and fulfilling to meet somebody that you vibe with but take is slow.
So overblown jesters of love are a no-no then?
Huge no no. You can show her you like her but don’t go overboard. No gifts or anything like that. Wait another couple of days and call her up. Don’t let her know you’re dying without her or anything. LOL
Dont’ let her know I’m dying without her, (although I am). **** this dating thing is hard, I don’t know how you socially normal folk cope.
jjlove wrote:
Why not just go slow, play it cool, and ask her out again?
She has hinted at another date next week nothing finalized, but I’m optomistic :) Yet terified.
Well mate it looks like you dont need help at all! :)
hello zenn thanks for the invite. but i dont think im any good, with the advice your looking for.
thats great to hear, she has hinted at another date………
but maybe you should finalize it, instead of waiting for her.
tell her the events ahead, and take control.
that way its a mystery to her, and all she has to do, is day dream about what you have planned ahead.
Maveric wrote:
Well mate it looks like you dont need help at all! :)
Thanks, I’m just scared that I will do or say something stupid: If I can’t have her as a lover then a friend would be just the blessing I need (God knows I could do with friends who are not avatars on a website lol)
DoubleGin19 wrote:
hello zenn thanks for the invite. but i dont think im any good, with the advice your looking for.thats great to hear, she has hinted at another date………but maybe you should finalize it, instead of waiting for her.tell her the events ahead, and take control. that way its a mystery to her, and all she has to do, is day dream about what you have planned ahead.
Agreed ;)
Oh my word you mean after the date you didn’t send her a quick message to say thanks for the date i had a very nice evening?
The a day or so later you didn’t send her one saying would you like to meet up again.
Send her a quick message saying I have been super busy but would love to go out again at least that way you will know one way or another, surely thats better than not knowing, I will say it again for like the 10th time today DO NOT regret the thingsd you never done
Cakes;-) wrote:
Oh my word you mean after the date you didn’t send her a quick message to say thanks for the date i had a very nice evening?The a day or so later you didn’t send her one saying would you like to meet up again. Send her a quick message saying I have been super busy but would love to go out again at least that way you will know one way or another, surely thats better than not knowing, I will say it again for like the 10th time today DO NOT regret the thingsd you never done
Yes I sent her a thank you message: what kind of unhuman monster do you think I am?
:)
ok cakes…………marry me :p lol
but truthfully zenn, if you plan the night ahead. all she has to do is get dressed (or not hehe), and wait in anticipation of whats to come!
DoubleGin19 wrote:
ok cakes…………marry me :p lolbut truthfully zenn, if you plan the night ahead. all she has to do is get dressed (or not hehe), and wait in anticipation of whats to come!
Plan ahead, ok I can do that.
DoubleGin noone has proposed to me before I hope that you are on one knee?
Zenn I agree with DoubleGin you should not miss this opportunity, especially with a gorgeous spanish woman Wit Wooo
Cakes;-) wrote:
DoubleGin noone has proposed to me before I hope that you are on one knee?Zenn I agree with DoubleGin you should not miss this opportunity, especially with a gorgeous spanish woman Wit Wooo
So bite the bullet and go for it?
Zenn wrote:
Cakes;-) wrote:
DoubleGin noone has proposed to me before I hope that you are on one knee?Zenn I agree with DoubleGin you should not miss this opportunity, especially with a gorgeous spanish woman Wit Wooo
So bite the bullet and go for it?
Definatly, just think forward 2 years or so and imagine you never went for it you are still going to be wondering what happen if you had gone for it, would you have had another date, then one after that and what would that have lead to, if you ask you will know the answer if you don’t ask you will always wonder. Go for it be brave and live for the day
yes cakes i was. i ended up playing with your pu$$y, cat lol hehe……
and bite the bullet? no just make plans for the evening and tell her, you have it all sorted.
say what to wear. casual, dress, what not,,,,,,,and make sure you show a little class……..
if you can dance, maybe find a spanish dancing club?
if not do something you like!
show her who you are. and dont be a fake! the truth might hurt her more if she finds out, you lied to her.
Cakes;-) wrote:
Zenn wrote:
Cakes;-) wrote:
DoubleGin noone has proposed to me before I hope that you are on one knee?Zenn I agree with DoubleGin you should not miss this opportunity, especially with a gorgeous spanish woman Wit Wooo
So bite the bullet and go for it?
Definatly, just think forward 2 years or so and imagine you never went for it you are still going to be wondering what happen if you had gone for it, would you have had another date, then one after that and what would that have lead to, if you ask you will know the answer if you don’t ask you will always wonder. Go for it be brave and live for the day
Wow your good! Alright, I need to get her were I am. I think she is interested but I want to get her hooked: any ideas?
Aaaahhh double gin you have got me blushing, I think she may be there already Zenn you just need to initiate the next date, a lot of us girls actually don’t want to take the reins and ask the guy out etc no matter how much women go on about equal rights blah blah these days, we still love nothing better than romance
Cakes;-) wrote:
Aaaahhh double gin you have got me blushing, I think she may be there already Zenn you just need to initiate the next date, a lot of us girls actually don’t want to take the reins and ask the guy out etc no matter how much women go on about equal rights blah blah these days, we still love nothing better than romance
Viva la Romance! She has alot of English exams next week maybe I should send her a little good luck gift. Also on the date she told me that her dream is to teach poor children in south America, I was thinking maybe I can paint her dream for her as a Christmas gift :)
oh do i cakes, is it my magic touch? hehe
or do i make you feel all innocent and shy?
DoubleGin do I need to get you two a room lol :D
not if you got a penis……….no thanks lol
DoubleGin19 wrote:
not if you got a penis……….no thanks lol
Not me you freak :D, Cakes.
Zenn wrote:
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Well I don’t mean be a statue, or blue! Or sit in that pose….I mean be calm! :)And centred :)
I got what you meant, I’m socially dim, not stupid :P
Hehehe just joking :D
Sorry… I have a tendancy to see ambiguity in statements. Even my own ;)
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Zenn wrote:
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Well I don’t mean be a statue, or blue! Or sit in that pose….I mean be calm! :)And centred :)
I got what you meant, I’m socially dim, not stupid :P
Hehehe just joking :DSorry… I have a tendancy to see ambiguity in statements. Even my own ;)
Hey we’re guys that how we role :)
Cakes, you mentioned romance!
Secretly men love it as well ;)
lol a freak………yeh i am lol
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Cakes, you mentioned romance!Secretly men love it as well ;)
Here-here!
I should so photoshop a rose into my mouth for this avatar of mine!
Shouldn’t I? hehehe
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
I should so photoshop a rose into my mouth for this avatar of mine!Shouldn’t I? hehehe
Nice ;), and change your name to Lorezo.
Lorezo?
Nah if we’re going to go all Spanish… it would Diego!
Thanks for the advice and laughs, but alas I’ve got to go.
inipropriate hugs for everyone: Bye and good luck.
sickofdoublestandard wrote:
Don’t let her know you’re dying without her or anything. LOL
Lol. :P
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Cakes, you mentioned romance Secretly men love it as well ;)
Some of you are rubbish at it.
Zenn how did it go?
Some of me?????
I’m not men!
I’m one man!
;)
Some men, I have never been properly romance with flowers and wine and dinners and stuff, i have to consol myself that a bottle of vodka is romantic, in a strange kind of way
Awwwwww….
Never mind Cakes!
Tell your man this… he might surprise you ;)
Oh I have been and still no surprises, but I am mostly to blame, when we first met I told him don’t bother with flowers they die and cost a fortune, I genuinely believed that at the time and I still kinda do, he did buy me an advent calander after about 101 hints, bless
Cakes;-) wrote:
Dougie the Pisces wrote:
Cakes, you mentioned romance Secretly men love it as well ;)
Some of you are rubbish at it.
Zenn how did it go?
What, the date or the asking her out again thing?
Wooo Hooo I assume that you asked her if there was a date, sooooo how was it? Will there be another date?
The date went better than exspected, I was so nervous, But all that went when she arrived at the cinema. We watched the new Bond movie (which we hated), but we spent the rest of the night at the bar, just talking and laughing. I escorted her home, (after we were the last ones to leave the lounge), and on the way she sang to me Spanish love songs…At least I can die with at least one good memory. I’ve sent her an email, asking for another date sometime,(my mobile is out of commision), she is very busy with exams at the moment, but here hoping :)
Oh I am so please you went for it, sounds like you had a lovely evening, keep me updated
Will do. OK I spilled, how goes your love life, good I hope.
It’s so much better, I have been feeling really taken for granted by my boyfriend but we talked and this weekend he has been very sweet, I took him out for lunch yesterday and it was like our first date(except he paid on the first date) we talked and laughed and joked and then went home and chilled together it was so nice
At last the man is acting right, if he starts to act up again, I hope you know what to do with his darts ;)
heheheheh yesterday we were practicing for a mixed doubles darts tournament we are entering(I am awful) and he said I think I am going to die from a dart one day and you will probably be the one throwing them, I was like you better make sure they are too sharp then and keep treating me right,
A friend of mine whilst drunk managed to get one of thoes b,astards lodged into my right buttock: Oh the pain was epic.
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