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if you tell us what the personal problems are maybe some of us can help you

*nodnod*

We’re very good at that.

Changed my mind. I’m not telling you now.

I am going to guess since you did not put anything down. So here it goes.

If you would stop assuming everyone around you could read your mind then maybe you could get along better with them. I think you should try opening up more to those who care about you.

Thanks, that is close.

Elaborate and maybe someone will be able to help.

hmm….

tough love was not successful, nor was perky and cute….

I think you should at least give us something to go with, since you obviously have us intrigued, as was your intention. Now, we’re interested you’re withholding….

not hot anon, not hot at all. Sorta destructive really. We’re interested in helping, you want help, where is the problem?

I may be ruining my family financially. I’m getting this surgury on Monday. It is very expensive. Too late to turn back. It is a cosmetic surgery to correct something that looks like a third breast. Not an asset and I can’t fit into low rise jeans because it is in the way.Insurance may cover. WTF

My reply was eaten and I’m sort of glad. Maybe it will resurface.

You should already know if insurance was going to cover by now. I can understand your plight to a degree. If it is too late to turn back then there really is nothing you can do but suffer the consequences at this point. Maybe after the surgery you could find a way to make some money to pay the bill down.
Tough since it is too late.

Monday. I’m getting the sh*t done Monday.

Sounds too late to me. I don’t really think there is much you can do without somehow canceling the surgery and trying to wait for a better time or living with the issue. If you have already paid and there is no way to back out I think you have to start trying to resolve the issues you are having about the finances. Maybe you are just a little afraid of the surgery which would be normal.

I am afraid.

That is normal. If the people around you are supportive then you should not be worried about the money. They have already made their minds up that it is worth it to them. Maybe you are just trying to find a way out so you don’t have to go though with it. I am sure you will be happy with the results.

I hope so. I have not been likeing this thing which has been on there for nine years.

I hope you feel a little better after letting us in on the topic. Good luck my friend, keep your head up and be strong or find a loved one to lean on. That’s why we have loved ones.

Can’t lean too much. But I will get through.

Thanks.