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i need help picking a christmas present for a very special person…

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U.Nirk offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Something that means a lot to that person.

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frankndebbie77 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

ya but how would i know what he likes? he hinted @ me and it sounds as though he’s put alot of thought into my present so i don’t want to just giet him any old thing i want it to be special.. its just hard because all he really does is smoke weed play video games and watch movies..? what is there to get someone who does that? haha

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U.Nirk offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

hmm

Well… What would be a BIG thing to get him? What does he like more than anything? Is there anything you can use as a hint which he also likes?
Or, presents are usually about thinking about the person or showing your thoughts to them.
Show your thoughts to this person, show him that you take in what he says, and how much he means to you.

That’s what I usually do with my girlfriend, and she loves it. :D

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frankndebbie77 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

well thats the hard thing. he’s not really the show your feelings type. so i don’t know what would be something he would just loveee. i know he’s really into rasta and reggae and rap music thats what he talks about most but other than that i don’t know..?

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U.Nirk offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Is there something you have between you both? Like a special similarity?

I mean like; say your sirnames were both “Bunn”, then you could maybe get him two bunnies hugging or something…

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frankndebbie77 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

besides the fact that we have been together for almost two years now. i can’t explain it.. its like the opposites attract thing. we have nothing in common but hes amazing to be around

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U.Nirk offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Then use that as something your present can express.
Was that understandable? :S

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jennifer62376 offline Verified User (11 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

get him guitar hero thats the big thing right now my boyfriend has one and loves it i guess hes never gonna grow up and maybe u could play it with him it is fun…lol

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frankndebbie77 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

ya it was
:) thank you

any ideas though?
what do you and your girfriend normally get each other?
it soo easy to shop for girls why are guys so much more difficult

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U.Nirk offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Is it an expression you want to give or an item which says “you like this kind of thing”?

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frankndebbie77 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

i want to give him something that will show him how much i care

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U.Nirk offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Because this christmas would be the 3rd we’ve spent together now, and together for just over 2 years, I’m going to be getting her something that says “Two years I’ve been happy for…blah blah blah”
That’s the kind of thing I like to buy her, aswell as an item which says “I’m thinking of you” so that’d be a ring, little polar-bear thing which when you shake the little flakes that look like snow come don.

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frankndebbie77 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

aww
goshh this is going to be tough
thank you for your help

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U.Nirk offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

So use your present as something you can express your feelings with. But you’re in a sticky situation, I’ll admit. :(

Hmm….

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U.Nirk offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

As in the average relationship, feelings for each other are equal (unless the other’s cheating (but you know what I mean)), so if something would mean a lot to you, consider that specific thing, keep looking until something bigger comes up, maybe sooner or later you may find something which can relate to you both in some way or another, but if not, whatever is big to you, would probably be big to him.

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frankndebbie77 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

:]
hopefully it will be

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U.Nirk offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

:D
I hope it goes well for you. :)

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frankndebbie77 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

thank you
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much loveee

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U.Nirk offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

You’re quite welcome. :)

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kmw123 offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 49 minutes after post)

I think you should get the person somthing that represents your realtionship with him.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

I always try to pick a unique and special gift for my friends and loved ones. I found this great site — http://my-song.ca/s/ano1! You go on and make a personalized song — I did it for my husband’s anniversary gift. I had a great time putting the song together. It’s completely personalized, and so cute! It’s something I know he won’t forget for a long time. Great site, thanks for the ideas!

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