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Do you ever get frustrated with unanswered questions?

I don’t mean general life questions, like whether or not there is a God. I mean questions that arouse from your own life and the people in it. For instance, I’m constantly asking myself why my so-called best friend lied to me about a mutual friend’s death? Or why my ex-boyfriend changed and treated me so badly? Now and then, these just pop into my head and wrack my brain. Does anyone else feel like this?

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jcd offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Maybe instead of asking yourself why someone did something, you should ask the person who did it. That’s what I do, and I usually get my questions answered. If I don’t get an answer, I just let it go. Life’s too short to be worrying about things all the time.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (13 minutes after post)

YES, I get frustrated about those things! Why did she change and start treating me so badly??? arg

Where did that sock go off to?!

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chunkymove offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (15 minutes after post)

philosophy questions I like, because I’m arrogant enough to feel I have answered most of them, but why people close to you do things that hurt you - those bug me big time. Even if you ask people, they often lie or don’t know themselves, or maybe it was so long ago or they have even past away. Its hard to let them go, but jcd right, life’s too short.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (16 minutes after post)

where are all my favorite t-shirts? I have no idea. I see photos of me and think, Hey I love that one, but I never have them last long.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (5 hours, 54 minutes after post)

jcd wrote:
Maybe instead of asking yourself why someone did something, you should ask the person who did it. That’s what I do, and I usually get my questions answered. If I don’t get an answer, I just let it go. Life’s too short to be worrying about things all the time.

You are so true. I will ask the person and if I don’t get the answer that I am satisfied with, I’ll just let it go. I have my own life to live so, they can keep it to themselves, it’s not like I don’t have enough in my head already.

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (7 hours, 26 minutes after post)

Yeah tottaly.

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