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My story is long, so here goes.

Two years ago I had major surgery on my knee, while I was out on sick leave my husband passed away. I have three children that are married. All my children were very close to me and helped me out. My younges dtgr and her husband seemed to be the biggest help to me and was there for anything that I needed. Shortly after my husbands death I found out that my son was a heroine addict and was stealing from me to pay for his habit. I finally got him to turn him self in to the police for warrants he had out on him and he did three months in jail. He has been clean now for well over a year, holds down a full time job and is a single father. Him and I have become very close. My dtgr and son in law approaced me and wanted to buy my house for what I owed on it and said that I could still live there and and they would add on to it to make room for them. I was supposed to have a place to live for the rest of my life and pay nothing. Shortly after I signed my house over myson in law decided I should pay $500 PER MONTH FOR RENT. I would always have my house which is small but I would be able to live myown life. Well, they insisted that I move in with them so they could do the remodeling of the house. I moved in with them for the long wait. They found out that they could not build on to the house as it would not pass the perk test. My son in law became a real jack ***. We got into argument and he threw me out of my house and pushed me off my deck. I moved in with my sister for a week and ended up going back with mydaugher. He has sinced kicked me out for the third time and spit in my face. I now am living with my sister in a one bedroom apartment. I am 60 years old and worked all my life and sometime 2 jobs to make ends meet. NOW I HAVE NOTHING AND AM BASICALLY HOMELESS. I have a fairly good job, but I am having a very hard time. I don’t want to get up in the morning and when I get home I don’t want to do anything but just sit around.

I have thought about getting a lawyer but than I am sueing my dtgr and I don’t know if I can handle that. I am just very desperate to make him pay for what hehas done to me.

Any suggestions, or has anyone else every experiened this type of problem

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

I would move back in the house and start recording information. Get a tape recorder and record any conversations without him knowing. Then when you have enough of him speaking threatening to you call the police and have them remove him. Afterwards, get a restraining order against him that will get him out of the house permanently. If he does anything physical take pictures of any injuring and go to a doctor to document it. In fact go for a physical before you move in to give the doctor a baseline.

Then I would file an order to have him taken off the title if he is on it. Claim that he made you sign it over under threat. That would be a good start to getting your house back.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

How did the whole home purchase go? Did you sign the house over to them… do they have a legal right to the house at all? That just seems so cruel that your daughter would allow her husband to treat you this way. Can you call the police and tell them the story and have them evicted? Can your son and your sister give you any suggestions on the situation? They can’t be thrilled about what’s happening to you… that is a lot to go through… my heart goes out to you. Best of luck in every thing!!!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (7 hours, 5 minutes after post)

aa wrote:
I would move back in the house and start recording information. Get a tape recorder and record any conversations without him knowing. Then when you have enough of him speaking threatening to you call the police and have them remove him. Afterwards, get a restraining order against him that will get him out of the house permanently. If he does anything physical take pictures of any injuring and go to a doctor to document it. In fact go for a physical before you move in to give the doctor a baseline.

Then I would file an order to have him taken off the title if he is on it. Claim that he made you sign it over under threat. That would be a good start to getting your house back.

Excellent idea. If you can prove you signed it over under duress he’s toast. Find a good attorney that will take your case pro bono.

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