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My courtship recently ended, I was promised an engagement ring sometime early next year and we recently broke up…

our lives are still very much intertwined. We are still friends, and it hurts so badly. I usually get over things quickly but this time it is different… how can I be happy again?

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 142 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I think it’s a good thing before you made your engagement official with the ring. Otherwise things might have turned nasty between you two if you had officially gotten engaged and had broken up afterwards. I say move on and be happy with somebody else!

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 142 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Do you still love him?

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I want out offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while
and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same.

Every relationship is for a reason , hopefully learning valuable lessons with each.

The pain will pass with some time, I promise

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Sounds like it wasn’t meant to be.

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (12 hours, 2 minutes after post)

Take time to see other things other than the broken heart. You never know it could be another door to open for you. If it was not meant to be in the first place, then one day you would be glad. Because you will soon find someone meant to be yours.

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